You need to be assertive here. Approach him. Make sure the tv is off. If its not ask him to turn it off because you need to talk. Tell him how you feel. Honesty and communication are sooo important. It doesn't have to be a blame game. Most likely its a combination of both of your faults. Let him know that so it doesn't feel like an attack. Tell him you love him but you're worried.
You may have to try more than once...let him know its important to you that you guys are just married but are also friends. If after several attempts...suggest therapy. If after that you get no results....consult your heart.
Is it normal for husband and wife not to talk
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You need to be assertive here. Approach him. Make sure the tv is off. If its not ask him to turn it off because you need to talk. Tell him how you feel. Honesty and communication are sooo important. It doesn't have to be a blame game. Most likely its a combination of both of your faults. Let him know that so it doesn't feel like an attack. Tell him you love him but you're worried.
You may have to try more than once...let him know its important to you that you guys are just married but are also friends. If after several attempts...suggest therapy. If after that you get no results....consult your heart.