I don't understand people that get married so young when they haven't lived on their own yet.
I personally don't know too much myself and need to get myself together more... I'm waiting to live on my own without my parents help anymore before I get a boyfriend even. I know that sounds odd but I like being free and want to focus on my career goals before settling for a boyfriend. I probably won't be married till about 28+ too.
Also only 4 months of being together. You're at the lovey dovey state. Wait till you are with him longer and live with him after you're married. It most likely won't go so well. I'm just saying...
There is a 50% divorce rate in the U.S. The main reason is because couples get married way too fast. They say that you aren't ready if you have to be with your partner all the time to be happy. You need to be able to live by yourself before getting married. Meaning, you need to be happy when you are a lone, if you get sad and lonely by yourself; you haven't found yourself.
Just trying to help prepare you for whats to come, I know this maybe harsh but it's true.
Good luck with your marriage and I mean it. Not saying it won't work out because life can be a mystery. :)
Is it normal for his family to hate our engagement?
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I don't understand people that get married so young when they haven't lived on their own yet.
I personally don't know too much myself and need to get myself together more... I'm waiting to live on my own without my parents help anymore before I get a boyfriend even. I know that sounds odd but I like being free and want to focus on my career goals before settling for a boyfriend. I probably won't be married till about 28+ too.
Also only 4 months of being together. You're at the lovey dovey state. Wait till you are with him longer and live with him after you're married. It most likely won't go so well. I'm just saying...
There is a 50% divorce rate in the U.S. The main reason is because couples get married way too fast. They say that you aren't ready if you have to be with your partner all the time to be happy. You need to be able to live by yourself before getting married. Meaning, you need to be happy when you are a lone, if you get sad and lonely by yourself; you haven't found yourself.
Just trying to help prepare you for whats to come, I know this maybe harsh but it's true.
Good luck with your marriage and I mean it. Not saying it won't work out because life can be a mystery. :)