I told him that my paycheck wouldn't cover the electric and water bill AND the medical bill and he said "Well just don't pay the medical bill" and I asked him if he could pay the electric and water himself, "Sorry, I can't", are you short on money? "No, but I am racing my friend from out of town next month and I need to put that money into new racing tires". I just said ok and walked away...
He literally just said playing toy cars with his friend is a bigger priority than medical bills and utilities. You know very well that he is treating you poorly. Tell him you're not paying electric/water, you're paying your medical. It's just as much his responsibility as yours, so if it's not taken care of it's on him. It's obvious he needs you more than you need him. Tell the spoiled brat to grow up or there will be a whole lot of bills you won't pay. Say cable, internet, etc. Stop spoiling him, you're not his mom. He's supposed to have your back in sickness. Demand some damn respect. Grow some backbone. Do not be a victim.
Don't think this won't happen again if you move on. As long as you think you should bend over backwards, you will be bent over backwards. If you think you deserve respect, you will own respect. Balance yourself out. Give yourself, but don't throw yourself about.
IIN for him to be this inconsiderate?
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I told him that my paycheck wouldn't cover the electric and water bill AND the medical bill and he said "Well just don't pay the medical bill" and I asked him if he could pay the electric and water himself, "Sorry, I can't", are you short on money? "No, but I am racing my friend from out of town next month and I need to put that money into new racing tires". I just said ok and walked away...
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Like I said before, cut your losses and divorce him.
He literally just said playing toy cars with his friend is a bigger priority than medical bills and utilities. You know very well that he is treating you poorly. Tell him you're not paying electric/water, you're paying your medical. It's just as much his responsibility as yours, so if it's not taken care of it's on him. It's obvious he needs you more than you need him. Tell the spoiled brat to grow up or there will be a whole lot of bills you won't pay. Say cable, internet, etc. Stop spoiling him, you're not his mom. He's supposed to have your back in sickness. Demand some damn respect. Grow some backbone. Do not be a victim.
Don't think this won't happen again if you move on. As long as you think you should bend over backwards, you will be bent over backwards. If you think you deserve respect, you will own respect. Balance yourself out. Give yourself, but don't throw yourself about.