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So me and my boyfriend been dating for a while and we finally had sex for the first time and I lost my virginity to him but for the past couple of days he's been acting so weird he says he's always busy and when we talk its late and its for like 5 minutes and he doesn't seem the same from when we didn't have sex. What should I do? Why is he acting like this?
In my experience, and I believe in the experience of most of the human population, both male AND female, once a couple begin having sex, they have A LOT OF SEX. It's not called the honeymoon period for nothing.
Either this guy only desired to deflower you and he is finished with you now that he has, or he is a man of very low libido, which doesn't bode well for the relationship.
Either way, it is probably time you started looking for a guy that wants more than a one night thing.
"I think guys in general lose interest in sex or porn after they lighten their load on it." That there, is called judging or prejudging based on the amount of information you have.
"Guys in general" refers to half of the human species(about 3.6 billion individuals).
How would you have incite in to what most guys are like after they "lighten their load?"
Choices?
A) you have fucked 3.6 billion people
B) you have fucked a large enough amount of men from many different cultures to attain a relevant sample size.
C) you did not "stopandthink." If you had you would have acknowledged that blanket generalizations are often incorrect and prejudiced.
Now I see where you're coming from. Well, I guess I did generalise to an extent.
However I have a wiener and know what it feels like. My guy friends also have wieners and know what it feels like. Furthermore, I have been lurking in the shadows of this website for quite a bit now, and posts/comments have been made about this.
I don't know if you're a guy or not but it seems to me this is a norm among males. I certainly haven't come across someone who doesn't get this.
Then "C" is the answer. This website and your friends are not a large enough sample size with which to judge half of humanity.
When I lost my virginity, being a male, I was in love with the girl. We cuddled for an hour after and I couldn't stop thinking about her. Do I think all men are like this? Of course not. Do you know why? Because anecdotal evidence is not evidence.
Well young lady looks like the pussy wasn't all that and a bag of chips. How long is awhile? Guys are known to wait awhile just to sample the merchandise before they make a decision to stay or haul-ass. If you lost your virginity to him my guess is that the merchandise wasn't worth wasting anymore time on.