Personally, i think its disrespectful. I have very high standards when it comes to respect and like you say, it has been a year now, and well,moving and and stuff does make it quite serious.
When my bf told me he had all his ex gf on fb i was very.. uncomfortable with it, i honestly do not think you should stay friends with your ex's', but thats not the issue here lol.
I think you should talk to her, from what you have stated you seem to talk about irising issues and this seems to be one on your part.
One thing i have learned, and i think this may apply to both, men and women that, if you receive attention from someone who you may find attractive or what not, then i guess you may have that nack to just keep the conversation going. We are social animals, we feed from peoples flattery (as sad as that is) because it hels build our self-esteem (how else do you think it develops lol.
But this is affecting you and i do think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel, if you are as compatable as you say you are then you will not find any problems understanding. If you do have the talk, tell her how would she feel if she was in your shoes.
Is it normal for her to talk to past lovers?
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Personally, i think its disrespectful. I have very high standards when it comes to respect and like you say, it has been a year now, and well,moving and and stuff does make it quite serious.
When my bf told me he had all his ex gf on fb i was very.. uncomfortable with it, i honestly do not think you should stay friends with your ex's', but thats not the issue here lol.
I think you should talk to her, from what you have stated you seem to talk about irising issues and this seems to be one on your part.
One thing i have learned, and i think this may apply to both, men and women that, if you receive attention from someone who you may find attractive or what not, then i guess you may have that nack to just keep the conversation going. We are social animals, we feed from peoples flattery (as sad as that is) because it hels build our self-esteem (how else do you think it develops lol.
But this is affecting you and i do think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel, if you are as compatable as you say you are then you will not find any problems understanding. If you do have the talk, tell her how would she feel if she was in your shoes.
Good luck, and keep us posted if you like :) xx