Ok. Just be careful. While you wait until 35, you might find out she still doesn't want any, then you will have to spend atleast a year or two to find a woman that's right for you that would be a good mother. Remember, just because you leave her at 35 doesn't mean you'll find a female within the first year that suits you, and then you also have to wait until she is ready to have a child with you, which can take a few years.
Well we've got 15ish years until 35. If she doesn't want any in the next 5 years (that is if we stay together) I'll always love her but she can't make me happy. I want kids to carry me on.
I really am confused on the "carry me on" part of this response. How does having kids carry anyone on? Cant you just live your life for your own satisfaction, work a job to support yourself and spend your free time doing what you want to do?
I dont have anything against kids, (dont have much for them either) but I really find myself confused by this absurd pressure men place on themselves for marriage and then kids. Being married and having kids is not something you "have to do" in life. Or need to do to "carry on".
Is it normal For her to never want kids?
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Ok. Just be careful. While you wait until 35, you might find out she still doesn't want any, then you will have to spend atleast a year or two to find a woman that's right for you that would be a good mother. Remember, just because you leave her at 35 doesn't mean you'll find a female within the first year that suits you, and then you also have to wait until she is ready to have a child with you, which can take a few years.
Just be careful with the times.
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Well we've got 15ish years until 35. If she doesn't want any in the next 5 years (that is if we stay together) I'll always love her but she can't make me happy. I want kids to carry me on.
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I really am confused on the "carry me on" part of this response. How does having kids carry anyone on? Cant you just live your life for your own satisfaction, work a job to support yourself and spend your free time doing what you want to do?
I dont have anything against kids, (dont have much for them either) but I really find myself confused by this absurd pressure men place on themselves for marriage and then kids. Being married and having kids is not something you "have to do" in life. Or need to do to "carry on".
Good call. I hope you the best in having children.
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Thanks :)