While I agree with ItDuz, I do not think that it is right. I think that it was a pretty shallow move but I am assuming that she made no attempt to help him lose the weight, encourage him to continue a healthy lifestyle or at least support him when he needed her the most.
Obviously, the relationship did not mean enough to her for her to attempt to help steer him in the right direction and I feel bad for the both of them. My only hope is that he saw the relationship in as shallow and superficial of a manner as she did.
However, I can not judge. If she did try to help him and he refused any help, then maybe it is a good thing that they broke it off. 50 pounds in a few months is a hell of a downhill fall as far as not taking care of yourself goes and I would hate to be in a relationship in which my partner does not have the concern for his health necessary to keep himself in halfway decent shape and I wouldn't blame a partner for feeling the same.
However, I am married. If my husband left me for my weight or vice-versa... that'd be a pretty bitch move.
Is it normal for her to break up with her boyfriend over this?
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While I agree with ItDuz, I do not think that it is right. I think that it was a pretty shallow move but I am assuming that she made no attempt to help him lose the weight, encourage him to continue a healthy lifestyle or at least support him when he needed her the most.
Obviously, the relationship did not mean enough to her for her to attempt to help steer him in the right direction and I feel bad for the both of them. My only hope is that he saw the relationship in as shallow and superficial of a manner as she did.
However, I can not judge. If she did try to help him and he refused any help, then maybe it is a good thing that they broke it off. 50 pounds in a few months is a hell of a downhill fall as far as not taking care of yourself goes and I would hate to be in a relationship in which my partner does not have the concern for his health necessary to keep himself in halfway decent shape and I wouldn't blame a partner for feeling the same.
However, I am married. If my husband left me for my weight or vice-versa... that'd be a pretty bitch move.