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What is the fine line between a guy who is just nice and a guy who is interested? If you are acquainted with a guy who makes an effort to say hi to you when he sees you and sometimes hugs you, is he friendly or interested? Are there guys who are nice to girls they aren't attracted to just to be nice? Just wondering if that is generally true with males.
I try to be friendly to all the girls. I'm not hitting on the ugly ones. I'm not even hitting on the hot ones. I've know some wonderful people who are quite unattractive physically. If you judge people by their outward appearance you're going to miss out on some gems.
If you are an unattractive female and some guy is being nice to you it doesn't have to mean he wants a date or wants to hop in bed with you. It could just mean that he's open to getting to know you better, or maybe he just wants to be friends. Just be yourself so he can get to know you on a casual basis with no pressure and if he's interested he'll let you know. Even if he's not interested does it hurt to have one more person in this world who feels kindly toward you instead of disliking you?
EVERY guy is different. One will expect you to see the signs and another gets annoyed with you over interpreting things. Not bagging on guys, they are doing there darndest most the time, you should be prepared to have a unique relationship with every dude. My advise is if you are really confused by him to talk to him about it. Every guy-girl relationship needs this. It will strengthen your friendship at the very least, and you will be able to be open about how you go about your friendliness. bottom line:Communicate