I don't know really. I been made a target but I am not sure what I am doing wrong. It happens a lot though. Be it on the computer or off. Though I fail to understand whats really wrong with me. When I try to ask people they take it as im being self centered and just tell me to go fuck myself.
So I guess ill never know. I am not one of those people who will really pick up on these suddle cues so I cant really describe what identifys a weak, sad, vulnerable person. I can predict situations based on behavior but that is based on outer behavior not suddle movements.
I been told I made myself a target and I was told this as a child. Though I never understand what I was doing wrong. I was always polite and kind of would mind my own business and did everything I was told as a child.
Despite this I would still be chased, bullied, picked on and rejected by my peers. If I was in the wrong or if I was in the right. Sometimes people seem to be trying to pick at nerves and than I realize they have gotten the impression I was insecure.
I not sure how though. Even on sites where I hide everything other than my gender. Even if I don't ever talk about myself. I not sure what shows an insecure person. I guess not being a dick. Maybe you were not enough of a dick and they mistook that as weakness.
I know I personally tend to gravitate towards dysfunctional people just because dysfunctional people are always so weird. They often don't have many friends either or are usually rejected and so are less likely to reject you. I cant really deal with normal people though. I don't watch sports and I don't go to church so I cant tolerate a person who talks about NOTHING but football and church. I really don't care!
Is it normal for guys to pick out a girl they KNOW is damaged?
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I don't know really. I been made a target but I am not sure what I am doing wrong. It happens a lot though. Be it on the computer or off. Though I fail to understand whats really wrong with me. When I try to ask people they take it as im being self centered and just tell me to go fuck myself.
So I guess ill never know. I am not one of those people who will really pick up on these suddle cues so I cant really describe what identifys a weak, sad, vulnerable person. I can predict situations based on behavior but that is based on outer behavior not suddle movements.
I been told I made myself a target and I was told this as a child. Though I never understand what I was doing wrong. I was always polite and kind of would mind my own business and did everything I was told as a child.
Despite this I would still be chased, bullied, picked on and rejected by my peers. If I was in the wrong or if I was in the right. Sometimes people seem to be trying to pick at nerves and than I realize they have gotten the impression I was insecure.
I not sure how though. Even on sites where I hide everything other than my gender. Even if I don't ever talk about myself. I not sure what shows an insecure person. I guess not being a dick. Maybe you were not enough of a dick and they mistook that as weakness.
I know I personally tend to gravitate towards dysfunctional people just because dysfunctional people are always so weird. They often don't have many friends either or are usually rejected and so are less likely to reject you. I cant really deal with normal people though. I don't watch sports and I don't go to church so I cant tolerate a person who talks about NOTHING but football and church. I really don't care!