I have talked to him already and every time we talk about whether he likes me enough to stay in touch, he doesn't tell me its over. So either he doesn't want to get rid of me cause he does like me or he doesn't want to get rid of me so he has someone around so basically using me. He says he hasn't talked to anyone and doesn't have anyone by choice not only cause he's into me but because he's too busy to even bother with girls in general. So I trust him w that but it hurts me to think he just wants to keep me around and then when he finds someone worth it he's gonna leave me. But like I said "think"...maybe I'm just mind-fucking myself and thinking too much that he is telling the truth that he doesn't want a relationship right now but he does like me so he's staying in touch w me to not lose me completely.
All I want him to do is to be honest w me and put a little more effort although he has. He's come and see me when I thought that was entirely impossible and he talks to me and says sweet things that I wouldn't expect him to say. If he keeps doing this knowing he's not playing w me then ill be good. Its okay if he doesn't wanna be w me cause he's focused on his work, that's actually attractive as opposed to a guy who's always involved w girls and that's all he cares about. But like I said, as long as he's not playing me. I just wanted to know if this is normal for a guy to do and apparently its not but I feel like it is. People are too demanding in their relationships today that if theyre not their main priority then its ove . Don't wanna think just about myself
Is it normal for guys to not commit because of other priorities?
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I have talked to him already and every time we talk about whether he likes me enough to stay in touch, he doesn't tell me its over. So either he doesn't want to get rid of me cause he does like me or he doesn't want to get rid of me so he has someone around so basically using me. He says he hasn't talked to anyone and doesn't have anyone by choice not only cause he's into me but because he's too busy to even bother with girls in general. So I trust him w that but it hurts me to think he just wants to keep me around and then when he finds someone worth it he's gonna leave me. But like I said "think"...maybe I'm just mind-fucking myself and thinking too much that he is telling the truth that he doesn't want a relationship right now but he does like me so he's staying in touch w me to not lose me completely.
All I want him to do is to be honest w me and put a little more effort although he has. He's come and see me when I thought that was entirely impossible and he talks to me and says sweet things that I wouldn't expect him to say. If he keeps doing this knowing he's not playing w me then ill be good. Its okay if he doesn't wanna be w me cause he's focused on his work, that's actually attractive as opposed to a guy who's always involved w girls and that's all he cares about. But like I said, as long as he's not playing me. I just wanted to know if this is normal for a guy to do and apparently its not but I feel like it is. People are too demanding in their relationships today that if theyre not their main priority then its ove . Don't wanna think just about myself