Don't wait for him. There are plenty of men out there who will go out of their way for a good relationship and there are some men who consider a good relationship to be one where she fits right into his life. He isn't boyish- pursuing your goals before pursuing a relationship is very mature of him but if you were that special to him, you wouldn't be on the backburner. If a woman comes along who meshes into his lifestyle and is able to support him from his side, not from a distance, bet money he'd pursue her.
But like I said below, I'm also pursuing my own goals and therefore not looking for a relationship right now but just a real commitment with each other while we both pursue our goals. So its okay if I "wait" for him because im not gonna walk away from someone I really like and jump into a relationship w someone else I don't like as much just cause he was willing to be in a relationship. My real question is he just making excuses cause he doesn't want me or I should just understand where hes coming from and have some patience cause he does want me but can't at the moment?
I didn't mean pursuing his goals is boyish. I actually like that he wants to be successful first which is why also I'm willing to wait. What I meant by boyish is when we start talking bout these things he doesn't express much emotion or intimacy.
Is it normal for guys to not commit because of other priorities?
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Don't wait for him. There are plenty of men out there who will go out of their way for a good relationship and there are some men who consider a good relationship to be one where she fits right into his life. He isn't boyish- pursuing your goals before pursuing a relationship is very mature of him but if you were that special to him, you wouldn't be on the backburner. If a woman comes along who meshes into his lifestyle and is able to support him from his side, not from a distance, bet money he'd pursue her.
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But like I said below, I'm also pursuing my own goals and therefore not looking for a relationship right now but just a real commitment with each other while we both pursue our goals. So its okay if I "wait" for him because im not gonna walk away from someone I really like and jump into a relationship w someone else I don't like as much just cause he was willing to be in a relationship. My real question is he just making excuses cause he doesn't want me or I should just understand where hes coming from and have some patience cause he does want me but can't at the moment?
I didn't mean pursuing his goals is boyish. I actually like that he wants to be successful first which is why also I'm willing to wait. What I meant by boyish is when we start talking bout these things he doesn't express much emotion or intimacy.
I'm with you Neuro.