Is it normal for guys to change their minds in 5 days??

okay so this guy and I met at vbs about a year ago. we got to be pretty good friends over the course if the year. then this year at vbs we hung out all the time. we both started to like each other. he said the next time he saw me he was gunna ask me out. then right after he told me he liked me, he ignored me for 4 days. when we talked to
him again he told me that he just wanted to be friends. I was like okay? what happened to make him change his mind? is this normal?

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66% Normal
Based on 44 votes (29 yes)
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Comments ( 4 )
  • iamajinkyapawar

    don't keep the friendship .... no offense but he's just keeping you as a backup.

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  • heeraklee

    he is a girl. get over him.

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  • Fredobro

    well he could have thought you were not happy about it probably coz of the way you reacted and kind of got scared to lose the friendship if he goes a head to push. But if your interested in him just try and get closer and show some element of interest however don't over do it he may think your so cheap it's tricky but try usually if chemistry is there nature will definitely play it's part GOOD LUCK

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  • vaprick53

    Ya it's normal. The guy just got a case of cold feet, either that or he interacted with an even hotter chick (no offense), and decided to hit on her because it's more comfortable to get with a stranger than a close friend. whatever the case he's just nervous. If you like him, reassure him and slowly push him in through the door, if not then fuck him!

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