IIN for guys to change in a relationship

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago | pl

    Partners don't change in relationships unless it's minor like a bad habit. When you want a guy to change and he says he will, don't buy into it too much. Give it a month at most. I had the same problem when I was younger and a few months after the break up I was much happier.

    So, your heart will mend. You did the right thing.

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    • Peaches&Cream
      9 years ago | pl

      Does it ever get better? Each day i think things are better yet it geta harder. . Is a month too long? !? Am i being too easy on him

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      • KeepsakeDoll
        9 years ago | pl

        By month I mean when you tell them to change and they say they will, wait for at least a month and see if they actually meant what they said. Since you've stuck with him for quite a long time and he hasn't changed, he clearly is not ready for a committed relationship.

        Breakups can be hard and can take a long time to get over depending on the person, but you will get past it. Just stay strong and know that one day, you'll find someone that doesn't need to change because he'll treat you well and make you happy.

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