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I've always wanted to hear the devil's advocate of the "virgin" opposite sex.
Most dudes, as you may know, are rapid to give up their virginity. It doesn't matter if their 6th graders or just turned 18, they are determined to pop and be popped.
But what about the other percentage of males out there? Why do you guys protective towards your virginity?
Honestly, I'm just waiting for the right girl. I want my first time to be with someone I love.
Not all the blame goes on the guys that are quick to lose it. Women also want to lose it as well and in high school I think we're all very weak willed.
I thought about wearing an abstinent ring for awhile because I liked the idea of seeing myself as pure, like someone who was waiting for love. I'm not religious but true love can wait. I gave up that idea cause I knew my peers would laugh at me. But I still have a ring just not a physical one. Also, I don't think I'm ready for sex, seeing as how I have no experience with girls. However, I believe that my time will come someday, so I shouldn't be rushing into things that I'll regret.
I had two male virgin friends, they told me why they were, one was he was waiting for marriage, the other just wanted to give to a girl he cared about. Both guys just didn't have sex on the brain and could control themselves. Both were good looking too, I thought it was pretty cool they weren't the cliche guys that just want to lose it real bad.
I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone who I wasn't in a committed relationship with. Not that I could get laid easily even if I wanted to, so really it is quite convenient that I'm satisfied being a virgin right now.
And I'm not religious either, and have absolutely zero pressure from anyone to feel like I do. It wouldn't bother me if she was a virgin or not either, so long as she was clean and not a slut.
I'm actually more amazed by how fast the girls loose their viginity. 6 months ago, when I was seaching for a student room, I always crossed with people that didn't admited girls around my age (I'm 19) because most of the time they tried to have sex there.
I think that your first time should be with the person you know that will be your partner in the life.
i have had sex three times. always too drunk to finish or enjoy or even really remember and with people i didn't like. i always felt horrible about it for a week afterwards. i think you do well to wait for someone you respect and want to please. i'm practically a virgin and waiting for someone that can see through me...