Well I actuly found out he's been messaging a girl out of the country who I think he had a thing with before he met me. I think she was a foreign exchange student which is why she was here. Apparently he took her to His family for an occassion and he has yet to do that with me. And they're still talking over FB.
I didn't know how to feel about that because what if she finds out about me ? She's gonna feel worthless too like she's the side chick. So maybe I'm the main chick (which is still not OK but better than a side chick). But like I said he took her to his family so why hasn't he done that w me? I've spoken with them on the phone and supposedly his mom asks bout me. So me not seeing his family or being a part if any activity w friends or family makes me feel like a side chick compared to her. Is that evidence for me to act on it? I have already and asked him to admit it he's talking to someone and he won't give in he sounds so convincing but I knw the truth.
IIN for guys to be this clueless?
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Well I actuly found out he's been messaging a girl out of the country who I think he had a thing with before he met me. I think she was a foreign exchange student which is why she was here. Apparently he took her to His family for an occassion and he has yet to do that with me. And they're still talking over FB.
I didn't know how to feel about that because what if she finds out about me ? She's gonna feel worthless too like she's the side chick. So maybe I'm the main chick (which is still not OK but better than a side chick). But like I said he took her to his family so why hasn't he done that w me? I've spoken with them on the phone and supposedly his mom asks bout me. So me not seeing his family or being a part if any activity w friends or family makes me feel like a side chick compared to her. Is that evidence for me to act on it? I have already and asked him to admit it he's talking to someone and he won't give in he sounds so convincing but I knw the truth.