I personally am the one who doesn't follow through mostly because I'm not that interested currently. I have other things going on. However guaranteed there will be time a time when I slow down and say hey I'm lonely. That's how my exs got me. They were not obnoxiously persistent but like every 3 days max would text and ask me out and if I said no asked if id like to chat through text if I was free I would. When I got free I would spend time with whom I was comfortable which is whom I was conversating the most with. If he was my type and I was interested but wanst ready to chill for whatever id text back and rarely ignored. If he's was just standby till I get bored id make plans cancel or forget. Not respond often but I was friendly and flirty I can't help it they're cute and all. Just wasn't really into em. Like that movie he's just not that into you. Now you need to pull a "Hitch" to get his attention. All that to say persue but know when you're being played for stupid. Have your standards of how long or far you're willing to go. And don't sleep with him on your first few study dates. If you want more than a temp booty call that is.
Is it normal for guys not to act on what they say?
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I personally am the one who doesn't follow through mostly because I'm not that interested currently. I have other things going on. However guaranteed there will be time a time when I slow down and say hey I'm lonely. That's how my exs got me. They were not obnoxiously persistent but like every 3 days max would text and ask me out and if I said no asked if id like to chat through text if I was free I would. When I got free I would spend time with whom I was comfortable which is whom I was conversating the most with. If he was my type and I was interested but wanst ready to chill for whatever id text back and rarely ignored. If he's was just standby till I get bored id make plans cancel or forget. Not respond often but I was friendly and flirty I can't help it they're cute and all. Just wasn't really into em. Like that movie he's just not that into you. Now you need to pull a "Hitch" to get his attention. All that to say persue but know when you're being played for stupid. Have your standards of how long or far you're willing to go. And don't sleep with him on your first few study dates. If you want more than a temp booty call that is.