Is it normal for girls to like guys like me?

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I feel depressed about this. All of my friends are in relationship. I'm bisexual, but I don't wanna go asking guys out. All the girls think I'm gay, and I bet girls wouldn't want to date a guy whom everyone thinks is gay. I'm really nice to everyone, like pop music, get straight A's, don't get into trouble, etc. My one buddy told me that if I wanted a girlfriend, I should be badass, to not care, etc, and that I have to sacrifice myself sometimes. I said how much that pissed me off, and he said "Some girl isn't going to fall in love with a straight-a guy that loves female pop music." I like who I am, and it wouldn't feel right to change myself. But I wish I could fit in without changing myself. Is it normal for girls to like guys like me? What do girls like about guys?

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago | pl

    I would date you LOL

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago | pl

    You need to be more aggressive I had a gay bestie in high school n I would have srsly considered being with him if he didn't have a bf alrdy(: just ask girls out(:

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  • TheSeriousMoonlight
    11 years ago | pl

    Aw don't change I have a guy but if I didn't you're EXACTLY the kind of guy I'd like :) guys who are bi are extra sexy plus you just seen like a great person and not a douche at all. <3

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  • Sidekickz
    11 years ago | pl

    this is so desprate

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  • IrishPotato
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes, it is.
    Everyone has beautiful features. Sometimes more noticed then with others.
    Sometimes less popular then with others.
    But most of the time, the less popular attractive features, are noticed by the best people (:

    By features I mean Personality / Phsyical appearance.

    Anyway, back to the point. Yes, it is normal. Just like me, you're just going to. You have to find someone as equally different then yourself, I believe everyone has a match, and you should never, EVER change yourself because of these reasons.

    My final point is, it's normal, don't change yourself and things will end up great.

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago | pl

    I can sympathize with you. I once tried being a complete jerk to people just so I could get the girl. Needless to say, I only got others to hate me. If anything, I don't think women are attracted to bad boys, just cute guys who wear a badass trench coat. My suggestion would be to keep being yourself because I guarantee you that there is some girl out there who wishes she could meet a man like you.

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  • Poopgadget
    11 years ago | pl

    Either gay or straight. Pick one

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    you should try to have butt sex with your friend

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago | pl

      Best user name/comment combination.

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