Yea, I know. I never wanted to change her because I knew she was set in her ways, I just wanted us to grow to understand eachother. But I felt like nothing I could do would make her not get angry. Any little word I'd say, she'd make it seem as if I was ruining the conversation. And it at least takes her an hour or a day to forgive you, and I felt that was childish. I never tell her exactly how I feel because at the same time, considering how easily she feels attacked, I think she'd want to call things off right then and their. So I just held back, and had no confidence and felt tense and insecure in our conversations. There's never a time I really heard her apologize for anything, she'd just say how what I did was way worst. I'd forgive her right then in there but after doing it so much, and having hold her things against me in every conversation we had, I started to hold things as a grudge towards her. And once I became that way, she'd then see me for who I see her as, and then she'd make it seem like I was this unforgiving person. It's childish mind games, and it pushed me over the edge.
Is it normal for girls to behave this way in a relationship
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Yea, I know. I never wanted to change her because I knew she was set in her ways, I just wanted us to grow to understand eachother. But I felt like nothing I could do would make her not get angry. Any little word I'd say, she'd make it seem as if I was ruining the conversation. And it at least takes her an hour or a day to forgive you, and I felt that was childish. I never tell her exactly how I feel because at the same time, considering how easily she feels attacked, I think she'd want to call things off right then and their. So I just held back, and had no confidence and felt tense and insecure in our conversations. There's never a time I really heard her apologize for anything, she'd just say how what I did was way worst. I'd forgive her right then in there but after doing it so much, and having hold her things against me in every conversation we had, I started to hold things as a grudge towards her. And once I became that way, she'd then see me for who I see her as, and then she'd make it seem like I was this unforgiving person. It's childish mind games, and it pushed me over the edge.