Omg!!.. I really cannot believe this post.. You described my relationship with my boyfriend exact!!!.. My bf will do something and not take ANY responsibility for it and actually turn it around on me.. I'm 20 he's 22.. I understand u 100%!! It's exhausting being with someone like that.. I used to wonder and beat myself up like it was my fault when I knew it wasn't.. But I came to realize that I don't have to change for anyone's liking.. Yes we all have flaws but we also have our own personalities and for another person to come along and change you for their personal pleasure is wrong.. And yes anger does build up.. I knw exactly how you feel.. I knw this post is long lol it's just I can't stress how much I connect with u about this
Yea, I know. I never wanted to change her because I knew she was set in her ways, I just wanted us to grow to understand eachother. But I felt like nothing I could do would make her not get angry. Any little word I'd say, she'd make it seem as if I was ruining the conversation. And it at least takes her an hour or a day to forgive you, and I felt that was childish. I never tell her exactly how I feel because at the same time, considering how easily she feels attacked, I think she'd want to call things off right then and their. So I just held back, and had no confidence and felt tense and insecure in our conversations. There's never a time I really heard her apologize for anything, she'd just say how what I did was way worst. I'd forgive her right then in there but after doing it so much, and having hold her things against me in every conversation we had, I started to hold things as a grudge towards her. And once I became that way, she'd then see me for who I see her as, and then she'd make it seem like I was this unforgiving person. It's childish mind games, and it pushed me over the edge.
Is it normal for girls to behave this way in a relationship
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Omg!!.. I really cannot believe this post.. You described my relationship with my boyfriend exact!!!.. My bf will do something and not take ANY responsibility for it and actually turn it around on me.. I'm 20 he's 22.. I understand u 100%!! It's exhausting being with someone like that.. I used to wonder and beat myself up like it was my fault when I knew it wasn't.. But I came to realize that I don't have to change for anyone's liking.. Yes we all have flaws but we also have our own personalities and for another person to come along and change you for their personal pleasure is wrong.. And yes anger does build up.. I knw exactly how you feel.. I knw this post is long lol it's just I can't stress how much I connect with u about this
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Yea, I know. I never wanted to change her because I knew she was set in her ways, I just wanted us to grow to understand eachother. But I felt like nothing I could do would make her not get angry. Any little word I'd say, she'd make it seem as if I was ruining the conversation. And it at least takes her an hour or a day to forgive you, and I felt that was childish. I never tell her exactly how I feel because at the same time, considering how easily she feels attacked, I think she'd want to call things off right then and their. So I just held back, and had no confidence and felt tense and insecure in our conversations. There's never a time I really heard her apologize for anything, she'd just say how what I did was way worst. I'd forgive her right then in there but after doing it so much, and having hold her things against me in every conversation we had, I started to hold things as a grudge towards her. And once I became that way, she'd then see me for who I see her as, and then she'd make it seem like I was this unforgiving person. It's childish mind games, and it pushed me over the edge.