Is it normal for gay men to hit on straight men?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    " Gay men come up to me naked after showering, toweling off their genitals, trying to get attention."

    That might be your problem. You're assuming that they're naked after a shower to get your attention.

    Sometimes men towel off their genitals after a shower because they don't want their briefs getting wet. Not because they want you to see their twig & berries.

    And they're next to you... um, like right up against you or just at their own locker that's near yours?

    I'm thinking your reactions are perhaps a bit phobic. Why not just say "no thank you" vs turning it into an "omg the gay man asked me out" drama?

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    • gnordsnerth009
      11 years ago | pl

      I think I know naked when I see it. Sure it's normal to towel off your genitals as well as your whole body, and most men do it discreetly. But when a naked guy stands right in front of you, facing you, toweling off hs privates, his back, and wagging his dong, IS THAT NORMAL?

      Yes, I know how to say "no thank you," and will do so from now on, should any more incidents occur.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        Thing is you never said this from the start.

        You may have a clear mental picture of this but you cannot expect us to see this same picture if you don't actually describe it.

        From your original description hell, it could just be some dude drying off next to his locker and saying "hi" to the guy in the next locker over.

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