Is it normal for friends to drift apart out of the blue

We didnt see each other all the time but we understood our situations and i thought we always had fun when we would meet up. Then out of the blue, i felt this distance, i felt like a chore to them... i tried to push it out of my head but i couldnt help but ask them over text messaging and they said that we did grow apart, they said what? do you expect things to stay the same forever?.. now im left wondering, should i just let go of this person or should i fight for them?

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  • Let it go. Don't chase them.

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  • Kevinevan

    Friends come and go all the time. Give space and see if it's rekindled after some time. Pushing it will only make the person want more distance.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Let it be.

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  • Ratmanforelife

    Is this one of them, whadda you call, meditational things?

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    • amg1028

      no, just a regular friendship, that seems to be slipping from my grasp.

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  • redrainbow22

    You can fight for them if you want. If you care for them.

    Nothing wrong with getting a friendship back going again! :D

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