If it’s just one person saying this I’m going to assume he just has some issues. Maybe he’s been attacked before, maybe he’s paranoid or maybe he’s just terrible at reading people.
It sounds like you felt you were closer to him than you really were, which is a deflating thing to realise. If I were you I’d still be polite in group settings but focus my main efforts on friends who value me and don’t make bizarre comments about me attacking them.
Is it normal for friend to say they're afraid of what you're capable of?
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If it’s just one person saying this I’m going to assume he just has some issues. Maybe he’s been attacked before, maybe he’s paranoid or maybe he’s just terrible at reading people.
It sounds like you felt you were closer to him than you really were, which is a deflating thing to realise. If I were you I’d still be polite in group settings but focus my main efforts on friends who value me and don’t make bizarre comments about me attacking them.