Is it normal for french kissin to not feel great the first time?

well, my boyfriend stayed over for the weekend and he got to sleep in my room with me. We were just talking till 3 in the morning. Then He asked me if I ever french kissed. no I didn't. I was really nervous since it was my first time and I didn't know how to. He told me he knew how. But anyways...when we started it didn't feel good at all. I ended up breathing heavily after a while. is that normal or what? haha

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  • Every single one of my friends remembers their first kiss and I can't so either my memory is AWFUL (which it is) or it wasn't great so I'm gonna go with it gets better with time lol. Now I absolutely love kissing, when you really like someone and you kiss for the very first time it's just magical, I get a tingly feeling in my spine and I could just rape them there and then.
    Also I have noticed a lot of men rush kissing, just get him to slow down so it's not so intense and enjoy it, practice makes perfect!
    Wow I really want a kiss now...god bless the next customer who walks in

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  • Keep trying, it gets a lot better with practice.

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  • How'd he do it my gf just tried to shove it down my throught I told her that's not how you do it it's like tounge sex

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  • Haha a first kiss was a French kiss I loved the fealing of tounge on tounge to my first kiss maybe he did it
    Wrong ill be happy to show you

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  • Yep, my girlfriend and I were terrible at it at first, but it just takes practice.

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  • The primacy of the kiss may be irrelevant. The fact is he may just be a bad kisser (many people are). Most people are bad at oral sex as well. I, however, am great at both. Keep kissing frogs and eventually you will find your prince.

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  • Oh man, my very first kiss was a French. I fucking LOVED it! She was a such a pro!

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  • it depends on how he did it.... did he just shove his tongue down your throat or did he try to tease you into pleasure?

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  • I find french kissing horrible if the other person doesn't know what they are doing so I usually avoid it. You could have been breathing heavily because you were nervous. Idk. If you do it again try to remember that less is more.

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