Is it normal for exes to be "friends with benefits"?

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago | pl

    Had you ONLY wanted sex from him I'd say: Go for it!

    But you clearly still care for the guy and he has over and over again proven that he doesn't want more than just easy sex.

    Don't fall for it and don't hurt yourself further :/ As a girl you can EASILY get a friend with benefits somewhere else, someone who isn't your ex ...

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    • morgano
      9 years ago | pl

      i do still have feelings for him (somehow lol) and i'm not going to do it, I don't want to degrade myself for a guy who treats me like crap. thank you for the feedback (:

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago | pl

        Good! Take care and better luck with the next guy who wins your heart.

        Feelings can be tricky to get rid of :/

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      • Sog
        9 years ago | pl

        He has absolutely no concern for you at all and is just looking for a play-thing to keep him occupied. You will quickly be replaced when he finds a shiny new "toy" that grabs his attention.

        That's not a relationship that you want to be a part of. He likely has a whole phone full of women he messes around with just to fulfill his superficial needs and to brag to his friends about.

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    • fucifino
      9 years ago | pl

      (s)aint is right....you clearly still have feelings for him and this is him using you. If you just wanted the sex too and didn't have feelings for him it would be normal.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      9 years ago | pl

      yeah this.

      if you want to just have sex with a friend that's fine. i've done it myself.

      however when one person wants more than the other ... it doesn't usually end well.

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