It's a natural defense mechanism. Back in the 70s, it was thought that people would be better if they got rid of that through sensitivity training, but somebody did a follow up study on those who went through such programs. They studied college students because that was the easiest population to follow. Those who did sensitivity training were more likely to lose their way, drop out of college, turn to drugs and commit suicide.
Before you get over-trusting, remember that there are predators and users, and you need some defense against them. About 4% of the population can be classed as psychopathic. They aren't all mass murderers but they're all harmful. They can ruin another's life in many ways and won't lose any sleep over it because they don't have a conscience. In fact, they're unencumbered by the feelings that the rest of us have. That's why we value feelings and empathy and put up defenses to guard them.
Is it normal for everyone to have a shield up?
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It's a natural defense mechanism. Back in the 70s, it was thought that people would be better if they got rid of that through sensitivity training, but somebody did a follow up study on those who went through such programs. They studied college students because that was the easiest population to follow. Those who did sensitivity training were more likely to lose their way, drop out of college, turn to drugs and commit suicide.
Before you get over-trusting, remember that there are predators and users, and you need some defense against them. About 4% of the population can be classed as psychopathic. They aren't all mass murderers but they're all harmful. They can ruin another's life in many ways and won't lose any sleep over it because they don't have a conscience. In fact, they're unencumbered by the feelings that the rest of us have. That's why we value feelings and empathy and put up defenses to guard them.