exactly. this OP is the stereotypical self-proclaimed "niceguy". the way he specifies "hot" and "semi-cute" makes it obvious his first priority is getting off, so why shouldn't they get something out of him too? he must not have much to offer in the way of pleasure, so they are going for something else. lol
My priority is not getting off, it's getting respect. You saying that being nice is not having much to offer in the way of pleasure? What about having a sense of humor? I have that to, I try to joke around with women, but for some reason, getting them to smile or laugh is what I'm having trouble doing. You think you could answer that?
Then why does it matter if they are cute or hot?
If youre having trouble making them smile or laugh then youre either not as nice or humorous as you think, or youre hanging out with the wrong type for you.
What's the wrong type for me? If women are finding me as ugly as I think they are, then me being ugly is the reason the attractive women are not the right type for me, right? Good looking women want nothing to do with ugly guys, that's a fact. I'm just not 100% sure if that's actually the reason I have problems getting positive attention from them.
Attractive woman are like every other woman, but more simple in some ways. treat her like a normal person and she will respect you, but if you want something more than friendship you need to make it clear soon. If you just want to make them laugh, treat them like you treat your friends. :P
Maybe your perception of women is only skin deep? Women can be very perceptive, perhaps they can sense how shallow you are a mile away? I can't help but to notice that the only thing you mention about women is their physical appearance. You have not made mention of the importance of a woman's intelligence, personality, wit and wisdom?
I honestly don't know if you are beautiful or ugly, or where in the middle you might rank, and to tell you the truth I don't care, because you sound quite lacking on the inner beauty. Regardless of where you rank on a hotness scale of 1 to 10 what exactly is wrong with you going with a woman who is your equal? So if you are are a 5 or 6 you would date a 5 or 6. What would be wrong with you dating a female version of yourself?
Wrong type - girls who don't share your sense of humor or appreciate your "niceness". Girls who are shallow, etc.
Although, if this is not a troll post, you are probably pretty shallow yourself for only going after the "good looking" ones. If you only want those who are good-looking, why shouldn't they want the same?
This is not a troll post. I have low self esteem and I'm too embarrassed to ask these kinds of questions to anybody in person or to anyone who knows my name. I don't care if I embarrass myself here because I'm never going to meet any of you in person, and if I did run across one of you out there, I wouldn't even know it's you and vice versa, unless I was stupid enough to start mentioning this topic and saying the same things that I'm saying on here.
You should probably work on your own problems before trying to get in a relationship then. I have been with someone with low self esteem who also thought they were ugly, and no matter how many times I told them they weren't, they wouldn't believe me, and there ended up being a whole bunch of other problems that arose from these type of issues (insecurity, depression, etc). So try to work on your confidence a bit first if you are looking to be in a serious relationship, or even if you're just trying to get laid or whatever. Confidence goes a long way, even if you are "ugly" (I honestly have no idea what you mean by that as its highly subjective and usually exaggerated, for all I know you could just need to work out and improve your style).
Being funny can be serious business. Maybe it's your material, your timing, or your delivery, etc? People, especially hot chicks, aren't obligated to laugh at bad jokes just to be nice or polite.
I've sometimes noticed that how funny a joke is is not about what the joke is but it's more about who's telling it. I've noticed good looking guys say things totally bland and unfunny and the women crack up, then I've noticed less attractive guys, like me say something truly creative and funny and the women look at me with a blank or serious look like they just want me to fuck off. It's all about looks.
Is it normal for attractive women to take advantage of nice guys?
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exactly. this OP is the stereotypical self-proclaimed "niceguy". the way he specifies "hot" and "semi-cute" makes it obvious his first priority is getting off, so why shouldn't they get something out of him too? he must not have much to offer in the way of pleasure, so they are going for something else. lol
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My priority is not getting off, it's getting respect. You saying that being nice is not having much to offer in the way of pleasure? What about having a sense of humor? I have that to, I try to joke around with women, but for some reason, getting them to smile or laugh is what I'm having trouble doing. You think you could answer that?
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Then why does it matter if they are cute or hot?
If youre having trouble making them smile or laugh then youre either not as nice or humorous as you think, or youre hanging out with the wrong type for you.
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What's the wrong type for me? If women are finding me as ugly as I think they are, then me being ugly is the reason the attractive women are not the right type for me, right? Good looking women want nothing to do with ugly guys, that's a fact. I'm just not 100% sure if that's actually the reason I have problems getting positive attention from them.
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Attractive woman are like every other woman, but more simple in some ways. treat her like a normal person and she will respect you, but if you want something more than friendship you need to make it clear soon. If you just want to make them laugh, treat them like you treat your friends. :P
Maybe your perception of women is only skin deep? Women can be very perceptive, perhaps they can sense how shallow you are a mile away? I can't help but to notice that the only thing you mention about women is their physical appearance. You have not made mention of the importance of a woman's intelligence, personality, wit and wisdom?
I honestly don't know if you are beautiful or ugly, or where in the middle you might rank, and to tell you the truth I don't care, because you sound quite lacking on the inner beauty. Regardless of where you rank on a hotness scale of 1 to 10 what exactly is wrong with you going with a woman who is your equal? So if you are are a 5 or 6 you would date a 5 or 6. What would be wrong with you dating a female version of yourself?
Wrong type - girls who don't share your sense of humor or appreciate your "niceness". Girls who are shallow, etc.
Although, if this is not a troll post, you are probably pretty shallow yourself for only going after the "good looking" ones. If you only want those who are good-looking, why shouldn't they want the same?
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I wish I could give you ten thumbs up!
This is not a troll post. I have low self esteem and I'm too embarrassed to ask these kinds of questions to anybody in person or to anyone who knows my name. I don't care if I embarrass myself here because I'm never going to meet any of you in person, and if I did run across one of you out there, I wouldn't even know it's you and vice versa, unless I was stupid enough to start mentioning this topic and saying the same things that I'm saying on here.
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You should probably work on your own problems before trying to get in a relationship then. I have been with someone with low self esteem who also thought they were ugly, and no matter how many times I told them they weren't, they wouldn't believe me, and there ended up being a whole bunch of other problems that arose from these type of issues (insecurity, depression, etc). So try to work on your confidence a bit first if you are looking to be in a serious relationship, or even if you're just trying to get laid or whatever. Confidence goes a long way, even if you are "ugly" (I honestly have no idea what you mean by that as its highly subjective and usually exaggerated, for all I know you could just need to work out and improve your style).
Being funny can be serious business. Maybe it's your material, your timing, or your delivery, etc? People, especially hot chicks, aren't obligated to laugh at bad jokes just to be nice or polite.
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I've sometimes noticed that how funny a joke is is not about what the joke is but it's more about who's telling it. I've noticed good looking guys say things totally bland and unfunny and the women crack up, then I've noticed less attractive guys, like me say something truly creative and funny and the women look at me with a blank or serious look like they just want me to fuck off. It's all about looks.
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Not necessarily, tune in to Comedy Central, those guys aren't all a bunch of male models.
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Well mmmmmm ...... yeh. They're not models, but they look gnarly.
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What do you mean by gnarly?
Being on TV and considered successful automatically makes them funny regardless of how lame or offensive their jokes are.
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Amy Schumer is a TV comedian yet people frequently complain that her jokes are lame and she's not funny.
Not necessarily.