Is it normal for are all submisive guys to be bi or gay?

I got a guy friend who's into that kind of stuff, likes to be abused, likes to be emasculated, likes to be commanded at, sexual intercourse with a dildo etc...and on top of that claims to be completely straight. I've been searching the Internet and people would say or they're bi or simply gay.
It's scary to think that he likes guys too because he never told me that he's into them so it would be quite shocking that he could be lying.

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm a straight man and I love women to dominate me. It doesn't happen a lot in real life but I fantasize about it all the time. I want women to make fun of me for being short and having a tiny package and saying that I could never ever pleasure a woman with what's in my pants. I want a woman to stick a dildo in my mouth and tell me that's what a real penis should be.

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    • Simple question to all this, why?

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      • It turns me on to feel that I'm worthless, pathetic, and disgusting and that no woman will ever be attracted to me.

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  • No.
    These submissive guys can be completely straight.

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  • I'm a woman and I prefer to dominate but I'll play nice and take turns if I like you.

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  • I'm a submissive male but I'm entirely straight.

    I really like it when a woman holds me from behind with her hands kept pulled back into my stomach super tight, holding my stomach wrenched back in all the way to my spine, and she won't let me go. It comes from getting held on laps that way a lot when I was a kid, blame a couple of older teenage girls in my environment.

    A woman holding me that way really turns me on, but the thought of a man holding me like that does absolutely nothing for me.

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    • Maybe what he has is just fetish but nothing to do with sexual orientation..

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      • Yeah that could be. In the case of my fetish, an important part of it is that a woman is dominating and controlling me and physically holding me captive in her intensely ultra tight stomach squeeze, so that I'm powerless and helpless to get away from her. But I'm as exclusively straight as can be.

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  • In the safe place of your own bedroom with your lover you can experiment with all sorts of play. My wife threw away all of my briefs replacing them with women's panties so I always had to wear panties under my jeans. She liked wearing lingerie in the bedroom and she didn't know that I had a fetish for women's lingerie. She caught me one afternoon in her black garter and stockings and to my surprise didn't get upset but stripped down and put on some of her other lingerie and took me to bed. We had a wild 69 session with me in semi-drag getting my cock sucked wearing a garter and stockings it was hot. My wife was into female domination and immediately forced me to wear a garter and stockings whenever we had a session. She liked whipping my ass wearing the garter as well as fucking me with her Strap on. We had some pretty wild sessions wearing lingerie together. She never wanted me to have sex with a guy but preferred feminizing me so she could fantasize that I was her own personal lesbian lover. I became quite proficient at eating her pussy and ass. Vaginal intercourse became a thing of the past and she adopted the dildo so that she could be my Butch. During 69 she could suck my cock forever not allowing me to come until she had multiple orgasms from my mouth. The spankings kept me submissive and obedient to her only and her pleasures.

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  • Everybody has a preference and we all get turned on by such a wide array of different things. I would not be surprised if this is normal. I like to think we can do whatever we want to/with whomever we want as long as it is done responsibly, with consent and without harm to any party.

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  • I Can understand the confusion but a guy wanting a woman doing this stuff to him likes it to be a woman, obviously. So it's not the same. But as I said, I understand, my ex stuck a vibrator up my butt and it only was for one night, I told her never again because it made me feel gay. I Like being both dominant and submissive, I can get in to the kinky and role playing. But I do have my limits. You don't have to be gay, bi, or even straight to like this kind of thing, it's just simply because what a person likes. Doesn't matter what sex a person is or who they are attracted towards, because all three can do it and like it.

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  • Like most men, I prefer to be in the dominant role, nothing too weird though.
    Just razor blade cutting, asphyxiation, and defecating on her face while she's tied up (while in my full-body latex suit).

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    • If a man did that to me I would be embarrassed to be a woman.

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  • If he takes the dildo up his own butt or likes to stick his sausage up a girls butt.....then yes he is gay...waiting to come out of the closet.

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    • He likes it when a woman does it, I guess it's his fetish

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  • To be honest its actualy quite hot when a woman i'm with takes charge or when we are 'engaged' in a position that makes her in control like when she's on top etc etc.Cher'

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