Is it normal for another guy (friend) to compliment your eyes?

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I have a friend, known him for 2 years. He has never once had a girlfriend and never seems interested in girls that much.

So recently we were just having a convorsation and I noticed he was staring at me with great curiousity. Then he just randomly says: "You have cool eyes" I just looked at him and said "uhh i guess....thanks?" And he went on about how he liked my eyes so much.

plus, he likes to be around me a lot and looks for me, even if it is a place he does not want to be, and come to talk to me.

Yet, he acts homophobic, saying he hates homosexuals. This is why im confused.

Normal? Y/N

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  • dashin
    14 years ago

    he wants ur opinion when he says "he hates homosexuals" coz he wants 2 see how u react..bcoz he is gay(or bisexual) and has a crush on you.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    he clearly likes you alot as a friend

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago

    Let him suck you off and watch him so he can see you eyes when you cum in his mouth.

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  • Koda
    9 years ago

    It's normal in parts of Europe (:

    When I was in Europe, I noticed that a lot of men freely complimented other men. It wasn't seen as unmanly to do so.

    I LOVE giving and getting compliments, so I felt more at home there. I think when you meet someone, you should try to pay them a compliment to make them instantly more at ease around you. A lot of people really worry about feeling "worthy" of someone's friendship. Complimenting them lets them know you think they're at your level. I don't think it should always be about their appearance though, as that's pretty shallow. Also, it can come off as brown-nosing/flattery.

    Your friend probably wasn't making a move on you. He probably just felt like being honest and telling you he thinks your eyes are interesting looking. Maybe he wanted to show some kind of brotherly affection, or maybe he was just fishing for a compliment back to validate himself.

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  • ebonysky
    12 years ago

    He likes you. The new girl is his beard. Are you homophobic? If not. Try bring up a conversation at random about gay people. Express you feelings and say they aren't bad and you would be fine with gay friends. If he is gay he will come out to you

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    It's normal cause he like you

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  • poiman
    14 years ago

    strangely, he just got a girlfriend. i guess i was just blowing things out of proportion >_>

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  • SomeRandomPerson
    14 years ago

    Normal, it's normal for a bud to just compliment your appearance, nothing wrong with that.

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  • Schythl
    14 years ago

    He's in denial, definitely.

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  • whiteout
    14 years ago

    hes gay. its dif if you were both girls thats just normal :-)

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    • avalanch_the_furry
      12 years ago

      not normal for girls!!!

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  • buckshot69
    14 years ago

    He maybe gay, I don't know the guy. Changing sexuality is a harsh thing, you lose friends and some relationships never change. I think he's grown attached to you, but he's afraid to ruin your friendship by announcing his feelings.

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  • infinity526
    14 years ago

    hes gay and hes afraid/denial/scared of being outed

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    It could be a cover up to throw people off. He may have gotten suspicious of people around him getting suspicious.

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