Is it normal for an older man to have a crush on a teenage girl
I'm a 41 year old happily married man. I tend to have crushes (I always have), my wife knows and is ok with it since she knows I would never act on them.
My latest crush is a girl at church who is 14 (but looks like she's 16-17). I have NO desire to have sex with her (I rarely do when it comes to crushes), it's more just about really liking the way they look. I do have a shoe fetish, so if they wear nice shoes, I'll have fantasies related to that sometimes. But this girl doesn't tend to do that, she is just really pretty.
As an aside, her mom, on the other hand, has no issue showing off her legs and wearing high heels. :) And yes, I had a crush on her briefly.
Anyway, she's the youngest girl I've ever had a crush on (well, since being an adult) :) It's really not dirty, I just think she's a really pretty young woman.