Derpinism is right. Say you really did want her back (not gonna happen, forget it) but say you did; the way to do that would be to forget about her, go out, be awesome, maybe get another girlfriend. (It's a little bit fucked, but there it is)
I'm not saying that should be your 'plan' to get her back, that would be beyond fucked. I'm just making the point that pining and thinking about her is not ever gonna help anyone ever. Its ok for a while, but now its time for you to focus on yourself, the present and the future.
That's exactly what I've been doing, for myself though. I'm a changed man from the breakup. I've improved in so many areas of my life. It's quite remarkable. Yeah I've done all the research. I wanted her back at one point but gave up on it. Hence why I'm not in contact with her. Like I said, I've been doing well but coming home from school has caused a setback so it seems.
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Derpinism is right. Say you really did want her back (not gonna happen, forget it) but say you did; the way to do that would be to forget about her, go out, be awesome, maybe get another girlfriend. (It's a little bit fucked, but there it is)
I'm not saying that should be your 'plan' to get her back, that would be beyond fucked. I'm just making the point that pining and thinking about her is not ever gonna help anyone ever. Its ok for a while, but now its time for you to focus on yourself, the present and the future.
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That's exactly what I've been doing, for myself though. I'm a changed man from the breakup. I've improved in so many areas of my life. It's quite remarkable. Yeah I've done all the research. I wanted her back at one point but gave up on it. Hence why I'm not in contact with her. Like I said, I've been doing well but coming home from school has caused a setback so it seems.
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Well keep up the good stuff and you'll be sweet.