dude u haven't moved on, right? your head is busy with thoughts you really are not supposed to have at all by this time. I wonder what is wrong.
you don't need to look for someone to forget about her. just do something good for yourself, throw away pics of you and her, get rid of all the things that remind you of her, delete her phone number and so on.
keep no contact because I am pretty sure she is not coming back to you.
I do believe part of moving on is finding someone else. Having other options really does help because it puts less emphasis on her. Unfortunately, I don't have many options at this point. I'm working on it. I've been dealing with some personal that have plagued me most of my life and it makes it hard for me to find other girls. Look I feel I'm a really great guy who deserves a great girl but it's tough at this point in time... I haven't been thinking about her but ever since this Christmas, which was a special day for us the year before, she started popping back in my head. This breakup was a tough one for me and I've really worked hard at building myself up and making myself happy and I am happy. However, the more I think about her, the more distress I feel.
Derpinism is right. Say you really did want her back (not gonna happen, forget it) but say you did; the way to do that would be to forget about her, go out, be awesome, maybe get another girlfriend. (It's a little bit fucked, but there it is)
I'm not saying that should be your 'plan' to get her back, that would be beyond fucked. I'm just making the point that pining and thinking about her is not ever gonna help anyone ever. Its ok for a while, but now its time for you to focus on yourself, the present and the future.
That's exactly what I've been doing, for myself though. I'm a changed man from the breakup. I've improved in so many areas of my life. It's quite remarkable. Yeah I've done all the research. I wanted her back at one point but gave up on it. Hence why I'm not in contact with her. Like I said, I've been doing well but coming home from school has caused a setback so it seems.
It's hard for you guys to get a good understanding of my situation since I don't feel comfortable sharing personal stuff on here. Yes I know she's not coming back. I know I shouldn't feel nostalgic after how she treated me. I guess I can trace it back to when I came home from school as I had more time to drown in my thoughts is when she started popping in my head
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dude u haven't moved on, right? your head is busy with thoughts you really are not supposed to have at all by this time. I wonder what is wrong.
you don't need to look for someone to forget about her. just do something good for yourself, throw away pics of you and her, get rid of all the things that remind you of her, delete her phone number and so on.
keep no contact because I am pretty sure she is not coming back to you.
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I do believe part of moving on is finding someone else. Having other options really does help because it puts less emphasis on her. Unfortunately, I don't have many options at this point. I'm working on it. I've been dealing with some personal that have plagued me most of my life and it makes it hard for me to find other girls. Look I feel I'm a really great guy who deserves a great girl but it's tough at this point in time... I haven't been thinking about her but ever since this Christmas, which was a special day for us the year before, she started popping back in my head. This breakup was a tough one for me and I've really worked hard at building myself up and making myself happy and I am happy. However, the more I think about her, the more distress I feel.
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Derpinism is right. Say you really did want her back (not gonna happen, forget it) but say you did; the way to do that would be to forget about her, go out, be awesome, maybe get another girlfriend. (It's a little bit fucked, but there it is)
I'm not saying that should be your 'plan' to get her back, that would be beyond fucked. I'm just making the point that pining and thinking about her is not ever gonna help anyone ever. Its ok for a while, but now its time for you to focus on yourself, the present and the future.
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That's exactly what I've been doing, for myself though. I'm a changed man from the breakup. I've improved in so many areas of my life. It's quite remarkable. Yeah I've done all the research. I wanted her back at one point but gave up on it. Hence why I'm not in contact with her. Like I said, I've been doing well but coming home from school has caused a setback so it seems.
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Well keep up the good stuff and you'll be sweet.
It's hard for you guys to get a good understanding of my situation since I don't feel comfortable sharing personal stuff on here. Yes I know she's not coming back. I know I shouldn't feel nostalgic after how she treated me. I guess I can trace it back to when I came home from school as I had more time to drown in my thoughts is when she started popping in my head