Is it normal for a woman to not be able to cum wheile having sex?

I have tried for 16 plus years to cum while having sex with a man and also when I masturbate. I try different positions, toys, tricks, language etc and nothing happens. I get the shakes and all the pre cursors and then my cl*t starts to hurt so I have to stop. Please tell me what is wrong with me?

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  • chaosdragoon1

    Sit on a dryer. It's warmer and constant. A washer will cool down when it goes to the rinse cycle.

    Jus sayin.

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  • dappled

    Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone is different. My ex was 28 before she had an orgasm. If you're worried it's something medical, discuss it with your doctor. Otherwise, keep trying new things. And have fun.

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  • mrwight

    im a guy... have u tried sitting on top of a washer/dryer? i forget which it was.

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