Nothing that you can do will change if a guy will stay with you or not. Like having sex. You gotta try suss out the guys and try to judge who is looking for a relationship and who is just looking for a nit of a tumble and nothing else. I don't know what age you are, but guys at the age i suspect you are, are like silly dogs in heat, so it could be very difficult to find immediate success.
You are best off stepping back, and projecting the image that your legs are not a set of automatic doors, and anyone who wants to go there should earn it. This automatically attracts the right type of guy you are looking for.
Inviting people over to your house may project the wrong image.. suggest other things to do that can be fun so sex is taken out of the equation. This way a guy can get to know you, still with your clothes on. This will qualify their interest in you. If they want to see you again, great, if they don't want to see you again, you haven't allowed yourself to be 'used'.
Whatever you do, DON'T get pregnant.
sure thing, normally my replies need to be taken with a pinch of salt, but on odd occasions I am actually serious, as in this case, as it all sounds genuine enough.
I'm 38. Of course I'm nice and very cute (after 4 pitchers of strong beer and a couple of shots thrown in) :p
Yeah except for me I end up on my back or on my knees or both. Now that I'm in community college I want my life to be different than it was when I was younger. Don't get me wrong I love sex I just want it to mean something I don't know it's hard to explain
IIN for a woman to feel used after sex?
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Nothing that you can do will change if a guy will stay with you or not. Like having sex. You gotta try suss out the guys and try to judge who is looking for a relationship and who is just looking for a nit of a tumble and nothing else. I don't know what age you are, but guys at the age i suspect you are, are like silly dogs in heat, so it could be very difficult to find immediate success.
You are best off stepping back, and projecting the image that your legs are not a set of automatic doors, and anyone who wants to go there should earn it. This automatically attracts the right type of guy you are looking for.
Inviting people over to your house may project the wrong image.. suggest other things to do that can be fun so sex is taken out of the equation. This way a guy can get to know you, still with your clothes on. This will qualify their interest in you. If they want to see you again, great, if they don't want to see you again, you haven't allowed yourself to be 'used'.
Whatever you do, DON'T get pregnant.
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Hi Juju thank you for that advice I really like your words. You seem so nice I bet your cute to :) Im 23 how old are you?
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sure thing, normally my replies need to be taken with a pinch of salt, but on odd occasions I am actually serious, as in this case, as it all sounds genuine enough.
I'm 38. Of course I'm nice and very cute (after 4 pitchers of strong beer and a couple of shots thrown in) :p
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4 pitchers of beer thats a lot. I had to stop drinking bc it made me wild.
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a common side affect to alcohol ;)
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Yeah except for me I end up on my back or on my knees or both. Now that I'm in community college I want my life to be different than it was when I was younger. Don't get me wrong I love sex I just want it to mean something I don't know it's hard to explain