so you feel cause i fucked up admitted it and she took me back knowing what i did, i don't deserve any trust whatsoever? i understand that i did mess up but it's been over a year and haven't done it again, you are saying i don't deserve any leash?
Alright, lets approach this differently. You do deserve trust but you did mess up and I'm sure she had tons of trust in you before you cheated on her. It takes more then a year maybe forever. Even if she forgives, she'll never forget, it'll be on her mind forever to some degree. It will however take a long time to rebuild trust, from past experiences that I've had, it's going to take a lot longer then a year. She's also trying to keep an eye on you which isn't a bad thing if you plan of having a long term relationship with this woman. Be open and honest with her in everything and don't be shady, I figure if there's nothing you're doing that's wrong then there should be nothing to hide.
Everything you do will be questioned by her in the back of her head until she rebuilds trust in you again.
is it normal for a wife to want you to not have friends but her own?
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so you feel cause i fucked up admitted it and she took me back knowing what i did, i don't deserve any trust whatsoever? i understand that i did mess up but it's been over a year and haven't done it again, you are saying i don't deserve any leash?
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Alright, lets approach this differently. You do deserve trust but you did mess up and I'm sure she had tons of trust in you before you cheated on her. It takes more then a year maybe forever. Even if she forgives, she'll never forget, it'll be on her mind forever to some degree. It will however take a long time to rebuild trust, from past experiences that I've had, it's going to take a lot longer then a year. She's also trying to keep an eye on you which isn't a bad thing if you plan of having a long term relationship with this woman. Be open and honest with her in everything and don't be shady, I figure if there's nothing you're doing that's wrong then there should be nothing to hide.
Everything you do will be questioned by her in the back of her head until she rebuilds trust in you again.