look i cheated way before we got married and she was supposedly over it and was trusting again, all of this started happening after we got married which was long after the cheating incident. so is it just a married womans thinking or what because im 22 and this is my first marriage so im still new to this.
In that case, she should have made clear that she still had trust issues. There is nothing we can do about that, but the point that you now have to prove her wrong about her issues still stands. You could ask her why she is behaving like this, and ask her, reasonably and without getting angry, what you can do to convince her that you have grown up and are now a responsible person.
how do you prove that you aren't going to do it again? i haven't since and she had full privelages to my phone/email whenever plus since i don't hang out with anybody but the fam idk how she can still feel that way.
Then explain what you just explained to me, to her. If you are telling the whole story and she has an ounce of sense in her, she'll consider giving you a longer leash.
is it normal for a wife to want you to not have friends but her own?
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look i cheated way before we got married and she was supposedly over it and was trusting again, all of this started happening after we got married which was long after the cheating incident. so is it just a married womans thinking or what because im 22 and this is my first marriage so im still new to this.
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In that case, she should have made clear that she still had trust issues. There is nothing we can do about that, but the point that you now have to prove her wrong about her issues still stands. You could ask her why she is behaving like this, and ask her, reasonably and without getting angry, what you can do to convince her that you have grown up and are now a responsible person.
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how do you prove that you aren't going to do it again? i haven't since and she had full privelages to my phone/email whenever plus since i don't hang out with anybody but the fam idk how she can still feel that way.
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Then explain what you just explained to me, to her. If you are telling the whole story and she has an ounce of sense in her, she'll consider giving you a longer leash.