She doesn't trust you and you are her husband. Why is she going to trust your guy friends who are probably going to encourage you to judge and make comments about other women and go out to stripclubs or bars with them. Seeing as you cheated she feels as though you can not be trusted because she thinks that you are a scumbag. She feels like you lost that privelage. I am not saying that I agree with her or that it is fair, but I really think that those are the reasons behind it. Before you get mad realize that she is just afraid of getting hurt, which is actually kind of sad.
well first off i don't have any friends only my younger and older brother, im the guy who dedicated my life to the person i was with. and i was never really alone i would always find someone to fill the shoes pretty quickly, and then it would be the same situation where i only hung out with her friends. but now that im married i know im going to spend the rest of my life with her(or i at least plan on it). so that is why i want to find my own friends because she should feel secure enough now that we are married to let me go find like minded friends. im not a drinker, smoker, or party animal. im not trying to go out to strip clubs i just want to find other people who have similar interests and are in the same stage in life that i am married young and still learning about life.
I totally agree with you that you should be able to do that and I never said you were a bad guy. What I was suggesting was that those might be things that your wife could be worried about if you do get friends.
is it normal for a wife to want you to not have friends but her own?
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She doesn't trust you and you are her husband. Why is she going to trust your guy friends who are probably going to encourage you to judge and make comments about other women and go out to stripclubs or bars with them. Seeing as you cheated she feels as though you can not be trusted because she thinks that you are a scumbag. She feels like you lost that privelage. I am not saying that I agree with her or that it is fair, but I really think that those are the reasons behind it. Before you get mad realize that she is just afraid of getting hurt, which is actually kind of sad.
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well first off i don't have any friends only my younger and older brother, im the guy who dedicated my life to the person i was with. and i was never really alone i would always find someone to fill the shoes pretty quickly, and then it would be the same situation where i only hung out with her friends. but now that im married i know im going to spend the rest of my life with her(or i at least plan on it). so that is why i want to find my own friends because she should feel secure enough now that we are married to let me go find like minded friends. im not a drinker, smoker, or party animal. im not trying to go out to strip clubs i just want to find other people who have similar interests and are in the same stage in life that i am married young and still learning about life.
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I totally agree with you that you should be able to do that and I never said you were a bad guy. What I was suggesting was that those might be things that your wife could be worried about if you do get friends.