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I am a adult male, married to a great wife. However she thinks it's normal to spank me like a child when I offend her. Is that normal ?
Certainly it's normal, and just be thankful that you have a wife who wants to spank you, millions of men would give anything to be in your shoes!
It is normal if she is not abusing you--and you consent--Its normal for us---My wife paddles my for something really serious--its on the bare butt---right out of the shower and it hurts---but there has never been a time i did not have it coming---It works for us---maybe not others---We both seem to know when a paddling has to settle things--so there is no argument or disagreement---I just want it asap and she is fine with that--for years i thought i was the only guy who got my bare butt paddled!
I wish I had someone who would regularly, strip me naked and spank my bare bottom when I deserve it!
When adults "play" like this, it falls under the realm of s&m and BDSM. There is wide variance as to how "partners" who engage in such activities choose to do so, and what they consider acceptable. In all such cases, (at least in nonabusive cases) there are "rules" and guidelines developed between the different people to make sure that things don't get out of hand.
If you willingly agree to allow her to spank you, then I see nothing wrong with it, and i can tell you that many couples do enjoy such escapades. The key is willingness. If this is the case, then it is fairly normal.
However, if this bothers you, and you have expressed your displeasure, and it continues anyway, then I would say it borders on abuse. In that case, it is not normal.
Everyone is just giving knee-jerk reactions without reading.
Sure it would be "normal" if you are consenting.
But, what the hell is meant by "offending her"?
Is this just a role play excuse for the spanking or is she really getting offended?
If so, she needs to get over herself. A grown woman should not be constantly taking offense. She needs psychological help.
In some relationships, it's normal, in some it's not. You apparently need a spanking, so why not submit and accept it?
It's only embarrassing the first time.
well, i think it should be normal, but there are not enough wives that want to do it!