Is it normal for a teenager?

yea enjoy the orgy like everyone else

I can relate to your post. I seem to have a lot of beliefs that, in our modern society, would sadly be considered old fashioned. Perhaps, this could explain why I have a tendency towards better getting along with, people who are decades older than me, than the majority of people I have met who were in my peer group.

You should honestly just be the way you are. Unless you're gay. No hate, but I disagree with the gay belief. Anyway, you shouldn't be having sex at your age and all this stuff. Being interested in people is fine, but just going around and doing it with everybody is honestly repulsive. Also, as for the dresses and the music, that's just your style. :) Be open-minded, because you don't want to be alone in the world, but if someone thinks you're weird just because of what you love, that means they're a follower. Be a leader.

Wow that was all inspirational and stuff...

Man, you just need to loosen up a bit, do what you want without thoughts of taboo or common conduct. It's fine to not dig the music of your peers, if anything it is better, as pop music is an industry, not art, and even what isn't custom built to sell is still generally fad, and of little quality. However music itself cannot be brushed aside, it is personally my greatest muse, and should - like most things - be explored and appreciated. What you really need to do is examine your motives and priorities. I have known manny people who denny themselves all the pleasures of life on the promise that one day they will retire rich, and be happy. But what is that? 25% of your life being taught to work, 50% working and 25% rotting and reminiscing on their waisted youth as their savings ebb away on care costs and christmas preasents for kids they cant even remember the name of. Why not say (loudly, with more or less this wording) "fuck it, I'm gonna get high and listen to Santana!" there are countless painful cliché phrases ("live life in the now!", "life's to be lived, not to arrange") that say much the same, but like many clichés we don't actually think about what they meen. What you have to do is bassicaly reassess your values and their merits. Tradition and Puritan/Victorian values have held our society back from great wonders, and what do they offer in return? Bowler hats. Not that they aren't apreciated, but it isn't quite a fair trade. And you have to stop looking down on people who are... Well just less anal, to be frank. If something is to no one's detriment, it is not wrong, and if it cheers people up on balence it's good. Wear what you like, listen to what you like, fuck what you like (if it is willing, I might add), drink what you like etc. just don't do things just because they are 'proper', because that is exactly the same thing that you are looking down on people for doing: doing what is expected of them by society. You just happen to have been reading to much P.G.Woodhouse or something when growing up. If you are really happy with this life of ebony tower anality then fair play to you, but I doubt it, you probably just need to get laid.

you know what they say, if you cant beat them, join them. and let me tell you, YOU CANNOT BEAT THEM this is the real world where sex is a real thing that people ACTUALLY do (go figure eh?) its time for you to stop listening to your fairytale music and stop wearing your barbed wire panties and get laid. this isnt normal, no teenager should be so. . . respectful. this is the time to revolt, the time to say FUCK THIS AND FUCK THAT BECAUSE IM A MOTHERFUCKIN TEENAGER BITCH! because you can just chalk it all up to "its her hormones" or "its just a phase they go through". live it up while you can before you are forced to be sodomized by the big throbbing cock of todays world. its a tough world out there so why wouldnt you have fun while you can???

I kinda agree with what Mando said. I think you're horny, and it almost seems like you're desperately trying your hardest not to show it too.

Well,sex at any age is believe it or natural.Well,I wouldnt say like 8 or espicially someone whos like 5-7 lol.But once you start going through puberty,then you are ready to have sex.How people find 13-15 year old kids having sex with each other is beyond me,mainly because without sex you wouldnt even be typing this right now.

I think your doing a good thing by not going with the crowd.

I'm just like you! It's normal

I completely agree

Everyone's told me I was born in the wrong era. It's as if the early 1900's somehow caught up to me. I have my moments when I will attend parties, or fun places with some of the people I went to high school with, but my music taste and actual life behavior is conservative as well. Don't change. For anyone. One day, someone will appreciate it more than you think, and you'll realize that staying true to who you really are, was worth it.

no i am the complete opposite of you but everyone is different i think i would rather be like you in a way

if you like her...

You shouldn't toss your ideas aside, but you should try to be more open-minded. Teenagers are just getting to know themselves and they change very quickly. Just because someone "shatters their principles" doesn't mean they have no integrity.

You don't have to go out and get wasted and have sex with every girl that will have you....and I wouldn't say that being comfortable in your sexuality and living it up a little bit (reasonably) while you can is necessarily akin to an "orgy."

My point is that you don't have to be so extreme. You seem to think that you have to either abstain from everything completely or abandon all self respect. There is a happy medium. If you're conservative, that's fine, but you shouldn't look down on people who choose to live their lives differently from yours. As for the idea of sex disgusting you....prepare to be lonely. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it will most likely be difficult to find people, girls especially, that can relate to you on that level.

By all means, if this is the way you choose to live, that is more than fine and I'm sure you're a very respectable person that will contribute a lot to society. However, don't expect those around you to follow in your footsteps; this will inevitably lead to constant disappointment.