Is it normal for a straight man to think fantasize about gay sex?

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I have a pretty girlfriend who wants to have sex with me a couple times a day everyday. Sometimes when I am having sex with her I fantasize about gay men having sex with each other. The other day I was on top of her having sex and I couldn't stop thinking about two men having sex in a men's bathroom (I was thinking about a high school principal really giving it to one of his students right in the ass!).

Is it normal for a straight man to fantasize about two gay men having sex while I am making love to my girlfriend?

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  • Brendyrose
    9 years ago | pl

    Yea...I wouldn't really even call that bi I think you're full on gay XD

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  • ScreechPowers
    9 years ago | pl

    I think this is completely normal. I'm a straight guy but enjoy hanging out at a truck stop and lurking by the men's bathrooms. I do this for the camaraderie and good times. To each his own is what I say. I sometimes wear Zubaz pants to the truck stop.

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    • robbieforgotpw
      9 years ago | pl

      Still hanging out at the truck stops? Do u get your fudge packed?

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago | pl

      Two questions: One, what kind of camaraderie and good times are there to be had in the toilet? And two, do you have a vintage early 90's mullet to match the pants?

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      • ScreechPowers
        9 years ago | pl

        I don't hang out in the bathrooms. I said by them. At the truck stop I hang out at the bathrooms have a nice lounge right outside them with a tv etc. I like hanging out there. And no I don't have a mullet.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago | pl

    What a bunch of crap!
    fan·ta·sy
    1) imaginative power: the creative power of the imagination
    2) mental image or dream: an image or dream created by the imagination
    3) impractical idea: an unrealistic and impractical idea
    There is absolutely no reason to listen to those cretins above; a fantasy isn't even a desire, it is just a fantasy.
    EVERYBODY has fantasies, whether they care to admit it or not.
    Enjoy yours and if they help stimulate your sexual experience, then good for you.

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    • disthing
      9 years ago | pl

      OP invited us to question the normality of the fantasy, not whether or not it was normal to fantasise.

      It's not normal (in terms of commonality) for a heterosexual man to regularly imagine men having sex with each other during sex with a woman.

      Most people during sex are either focused on the sex they're having, or fantasising about something sexually arousing.

      Fantasising during sex about something you don't find sexually arousing is quite strange, unless you are utterly bored.

      Unless, of course, OP isn't as straight as he purports to be?

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago | pl

        Seriously, how do you know it's not normal, in this case? I've not seen any studies and my personal (or yours) anecdotal evidence does not a conclusive statement make.
        You are absolutely right when you say, "OP invited us to question the normality of the fantasy", but for these trivial fantasies to mean he is definitively gay, is hogwash. That is what set me off.

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        • disthing
          9 years ago | pl

          Of course I'm basing this on personal experience rather than the results of a large-scale study.

          But I have never heard of any straight man willingly fantasising about gay men fucking during sex on a regular basis.

          Occasionally imagining what it would be like out of curiosity? Yes.

          Regularly thinking about men having sex, e.g. a school teacher "pounding his student in the ass", in the midst of banging a pretty girl? No.

          Sites like this and the wider internet usually give a pretty good indication of how common something is, especially when it's taboo, since it's often the first place people go to find out if there are others similar to them.

          So based on my experience of this site and the internet, and life in general, I'm confident that this is very unusual - unless he has some homosexual desire, then it's less unusual.

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  • pancakesorwaffles
    9 years ago | pl

    Nope ur not straight

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    I'll say it again...

    ...fuck

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago | pl

    You could be bisexual.

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