In all honesty, and I mean this as constructive advice, I think you both might have some issues. You mention those "daddy issues" and "gold digging" so you have at least heard and/or read about them before, there could be some relevance to that here as well, though I cant say for sure as I dont know you.
At 23/24 you should have at least another 50 yrs of life ahead, most likely more being a woman. At close to 50 for him his life is at least half over. A 24 yr age gap is a not "just a number" when it comes to a romantic relationship, you should have different goals, different maturity levels, different responsibility levels, different just about everything. If you dont see that now, picture 10 yrs from now, you will be mid 30s, still relatively young, energetic, especially if you take care of yourself. He will basically be 60 yrs old. 60 is old, its not very old, but it is old. Do you picture much energy or romance taking place at that age? Think you would still have much in common still? Hard to imagine just going on age difference.
As I said I meant this as advice, anything is possible. Only you would know for sure. One thing I can agree with from the other comments is that a man that age with a younger woman that age is most certainly interested in sex as well. Whether its just for sex is something you would find out, but it would certainly play a part in the attraction.
IIN for a soon-to-be 48-year-old man to desire a 23-year-old woman?
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In all honesty, and I mean this as constructive advice, I think you both might have some issues. You mention those "daddy issues" and "gold digging" so you have at least heard and/or read about them before, there could be some relevance to that here as well, though I cant say for sure as I dont know you.
At 23/24 you should have at least another 50 yrs of life ahead, most likely more being a woman. At close to 50 for him his life is at least half over. A 24 yr age gap is a not "just a number" when it comes to a romantic relationship, you should have different goals, different maturity levels, different responsibility levels, different just about everything. If you dont see that now, picture 10 yrs from now, you will be mid 30s, still relatively young, energetic, especially if you take care of yourself. He will basically be 60 yrs old. 60 is old, its not very old, but it is old. Do you picture much energy or romance taking place at that age? Think you would still have much in common still? Hard to imagine just going on age difference.
As I said I meant this as advice, anything is possible. Only you would know for sure. One thing I can agree with from the other comments is that a man that age with a younger woman that age is most certainly interested in sex as well. Whether its just for sex is something you would find out, but it would certainly play a part in the attraction.