I highly doubt it's his girlfriends fault. Maybe he is mad you don't approve of her.
Whether his future is ok cannot be determined. Lots of people fuckup as kids and grow out of it. Some don't as well.
He may or may not regret what he does. Nobody knows.
It doesn't seem to be your fault, but once again there isn't enough information to guess.
What I can say is a lot of it seems his fault. Most of what you described is typical teenager stuff. He is probably trying to figure out who he is. I recommend letting him figure this out for himself. If he goes to jail, don't bail him out or he wont learn.
I think the least likely of your options is that it is his girlfriends fault. Lots of parents blame their kids friends for their bad actions because they don't want to think that their kid is bad. It doesn't mean they're bad either though because kids do stupid shit.
The most likely scenario is that he will learn from his fuck ups and grow out of it when he realizes that being a dumbass is not a productive lifestyle.
The biggest concern is if he is on hard drugs because the people who do not grow out of this behavior are usually addicted to hard drugs such as meth or heroin.
Nothing you stated indicated he is on hard drugs but it's important to look for signs of drug use. Weed and alcohol are not a big deal either. Most teens do that stuff these days.
Is it normal for a son to turn hateful and violent
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I don't think any of your options are right.
I highly doubt it's his girlfriends fault. Maybe he is mad you don't approve of her.
Whether his future is ok cannot be determined. Lots of people fuckup as kids and grow out of it. Some don't as well.
He may or may not regret what he does. Nobody knows.
It doesn't seem to be your fault, but once again there isn't enough information to guess.
What I can say is a lot of it seems his fault. Most of what you described is typical teenager stuff. He is probably trying to figure out who he is. I recommend letting him figure this out for himself. If he goes to jail, don't bail him out or he wont learn.
I think the least likely of your options is that it is his girlfriends fault. Lots of parents blame their kids friends for their bad actions because they don't want to think that their kid is bad. It doesn't mean they're bad either though because kids do stupid shit.
The most likely scenario is that he will learn from his fuck ups and grow out of it when he realizes that being a dumbass is not a productive lifestyle.
The biggest concern is if he is on hard drugs because the people who do not grow out of this behavior are usually addicted to hard drugs such as meth or heroin.
Nothing you stated indicated he is on hard drugs but it's important to look for signs of drug use. Weed and alcohol are not a big deal either. Most teens do that stuff these days.