Is it normal for a partner to say these kinds of things?

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We were talking about something. My bf claimed hes always right and to wake the FUCK up. When I hung up he went on to tell me that he's deeper, wiser and lore logical etc.... A bunch of other things. I had to literally make him apologize for it because I think thats insane to say that to someone. Is this a good and valid reason to leave?

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Based on 32 votes (6 yes)
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  • ColdSnack94
    6 years ago | pl

    Didn't mean to vote yes. It's not normal and sounds abusive. Get out while you can.

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    • chocolatesauce
      6 years ago

      Yes, his behavior definitely seems abusive because its obviously his intention to make me feel awful. I'll get out. Thanks!

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  • MarilynManson
    6 years ago

    Leave his ass. Textbook narcissist!

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    He's rude and arrogant so why are you with him?

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    • chocolatesauce
      6 years ago

      Lol. I dont know! I didn't know he was like this until I started dating him.

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        Well sadly now you know he is arrogant/ demeaning and rude. That's unacceptable and NO ONE should be talked to that way

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        • chocolatesauce
          6 years ago

          I honestly feel so slighted... And mind blown. Surely this is a narcissist I'm dealing with? It just seems like he has a personality disorder... To be so full of yourself and think you're so superior is crazy. And ya glad I found out sooner rather than later lol.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    He sounds like an asshole, dump him.

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    • Zorak
      6 years ago

      Do you hate all men? Or just men who don't have gatorade?

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Nope, I just think OP's jerk is a waste of her time. Besides he probably doesn't even buy her any Gatorade. Maybe things would be different with more electrolytes?

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  • MangoTango
    6 years ago

    He's always right? Did you tell him that you believe the earth is flat or something like that? Did you have a feud over math questions? Science questions? Maybe that's his area of expertise. Maybe he was right? I don't know, lol.

    Was he angry that you're wrong over something completely subjective? If that's the case, he's an intolerant son of a bitch.

    Is he just a flustery kind of loudmouth? Some people are just harmless complainers.

    If you don't like his behavior, or him, you can make up any grounds to unhinge from this relationship.

    For fun, or to help him, maybe he needs some counseling in therapy to realize that he's not really being very people-person friendly. If he's going to be an asshole like that, he should get used to it if those with self-respect (you) leave him behind or put some distance in this friendship.

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  • Piggypig213
    6 years ago

    A narcissist sure, but he isn't adorable like Sherlock Holmes. I don't think he's safe... I would get out of taht relationship

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  • Coma15Grey
    6 years ago

    My ex said these things as well. Our relationship didn't last. No one should make you feel inferior in a relationship.

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  • momomomomo
    6 years ago

    Scary how delusional he is... Must have some insecurities himself to be saying all that.

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  • Zorak
    6 years ago

    There are other fish in the sea. Did he use drugs or drink a lot?

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    • chocolatesauce
      6 years ago

      He doesn't use drugs or drink a lot. Nor has he in the past. Why do you ask? Lol

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      • Zorak
        6 years ago

        Just because drugs and alcohol in excess make people delusional sometimes.

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        • chocolatesauce
          6 years ago

          True. I wish that were the case for him but unfortunately I think its just him.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            So why not just dump him for being a jerk-wad? It's better to be alone than be with someone who treats you badly.

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