I have known her since I was 10 and my dad is very close to her dad so we r over there all the time. I think I know her well enough to at least have an IDEA of what is going on. If I was to leave her, even if I barely knew her, and she really needed help, no matter how small, I think it would be horrible to leave her.
Don't you think it might have been a bit helpful to include some of this info in your OP?
I got the impression you'd just met the girl.
Still, from your posts, I don't see that she needs help or that she is in danger. She may be living in a pretty fucked up home, but it certainly isn't as bad as many on here have posted and if there's no physical abuse, I'm still not sure if it's your place to interfere. But honestly, I don't know any of you, so my opinion isn't of much value. Good luck.
Yes, thank you very much for your opinion. I, sadly, at the time, was too insolent to think of putting the amount of time and how well i had known her in my OP, however, even if i didn't know her well, i would still wish to help her in any way i could. I would also like to say that this is by no means the worst that was said or done to her, however there was never anything more physical than hair pulling (I have stated above that things have gotten MUCH better now that her dad had been around more, and i am wondering if THIS PART is normal, or if there should be more interference), i went with what had happened within the past two days, and it is by NO MEANS the worst story i had ever heard, but she had recently tried cutting herself, so i wanted to help her as i believed it was starting to get serious. She comprehends everything that is going on, and is very sensitive about being ignored especially. I am just trying to help, but of course your opinion means a lot to me, even if you don't know us, it was very unbiased and unassuming which i value a lot, so thank you for that.
Is it normal for a mom to say this to her daughter?
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I have known her since I was 10 and my dad is very close to her dad so we r over there all the time. I think I know her well enough to at least have an IDEA of what is going on. If I was to leave her, even if I barely knew her, and she really needed help, no matter how small, I think it would be horrible to leave her.
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Don't you think it might have been a bit helpful to include some of this info in your OP?
I got the impression you'd just met the girl.
Still, from your posts, I don't see that she needs help or that she is in danger. She may be living in a pretty fucked up home, but it certainly isn't as bad as many on here have posted and if there's no physical abuse, I'm still not sure if it's your place to interfere. But honestly, I don't know any of you, so my opinion isn't of much value. Good luck.
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Yes, thank you very much for your opinion. I, sadly, at the time, was too insolent to think of putting the amount of time and how well i had known her in my OP, however, even if i didn't know her well, i would still wish to help her in any way i could. I would also like to say that this is by no means the worst that was said or done to her, however there was never anything more physical than hair pulling (I have stated above that things have gotten MUCH better now that her dad had been around more, and i am wondering if THIS PART is normal, or if there should be more interference), i went with what had happened within the past two days, and it is by NO MEANS the worst story i had ever heard, but she had recently tried cutting herself, so i wanted to help her as i believed it was starting to get serious. She comprehends everything that is going on, and is very sensitive about being ignored especially. I am just trying to help, but of course your opinion means a lot to me, even if you don't know us, it was very unbiased and unassuming which i value a lot, so thank you for that.