Is it normal for a married woman...

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I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We live together, and I am deeply in love with him. He recently started working nights at his job, so he leaves at 5 at night and doesn't get home till 7 in the morning. Lately when he is off, I've been waking up in the middle of the night outside on the porch talking to his 42 year old married boss. I don't feel comfortable with him talking to her that late, and I did think about the fact that technically that nights are his afternoon, but he leaves the room when he talks to her and when I get up to see what he is doing he turns the phone down then tells her he has to go. It freaks me out and he assures me that nothing is going on because he loves me and SHE IS MARRIED. He also tells me that they call eachother when they are bored.. WTF should I do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well shift work is pretty weird, and I think they are just friends. But your unease is understandable too. Put yourself in the picture.

    Get to know her (his boss) more. Invite her over for a dinner (during their hours). Get sociable. Offer to go out shopping together. Talk. Find a common interest. Whatever. Be genuine in your interest of her as a friend.

    After all couples usually make common friends. And this let's her know you are friendly, respect her as his boss, and are in the picture. If he gets uncomfortable with that, or she does, you will know something is likely very wrong.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    He can lose his job if he doesn't do what his boss tells him to do, I used to lick my boss pussy and drink her pee to make her happy.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    This could be a lot of things. 1. They could be very close (Friends?) and confide to each other. 2. They could be having an affair. 3. You might have taken their relationship out of context. 4. If it stills makes you suspicious, maybe you could casually bring your concerns up with the lady's husband (or could this result in him being fired?). If you ever see your husband with that woman watch their body language or hire a private investigator. Do not go through your husband's phone or other personal things as that is very rude

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  • anonymous1503
    11 years ago

    why the hell is he talking to her in first place? he has you to talk to not her.

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  • snapdog
    13 years ago

    If it smells rotten, it is rotten. If there isn't anything going on right now, eventually there will be.

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  • Geneva5
    13 years ago

    Nothing is as it seems -

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  • ruralfrights
    13 years ago

    No no noooo. This is not good. "she's married"!is no defense, if hebis actually having relations with her. That never xstops anyone anymore. Sounds likebot might be headed that way. I'm with you one hundred percent.

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  • BirdIsDaWordGuy
    14 years ago

    if shes 42 she is pretty old for a guy married to somone who says WTF

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  • ctbpdx
    14 years ago

    Maybe he doesn't want to ignore you, and/or is talking about work-related stuff, y'never know. *shrug*

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  • Ohiosweete008
    14 years ago

    double date. if they are a great couple probably no big deal. if its awkward there is any appropriate flirting have a fit

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  • DiscoDuck
    14 years ago

    One word....Cougar!

    Look it up if you don't know...

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  • Geneva5
    12 years ago

    She likes to suck his cock and balls !

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  • jenny**
    13 years ago

    LOL! of course they have something!!! look, there is no such thing as a friendship between a girl and a guy, they always end up making out or something else. and don't think it is normal for him to get bored in the middle of the night, he talks with her at that time because they know your sleeping and they don't want you to know what they are talking about. Please! don't excuse your bf and open your eyes.

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