Is it normal for a married man to tell another women he misses her?

I saw a few conversations via text messages on my husbands phone between him and a girl he used to work with. They both said they missed each other a few different times. he also told her to call him in one of the text and I wasn't aware they texted each other let alone talked on the phone until today when I saw this.

I was wondering if I should be concerned about this or if I'm feeling strange about it for no reason.

Is It Normal?
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  • He's married, texts her without you knowing and says he misses her. That's a red flag. Married in love men don't tell other girls they miss them unless it's family.

    You should:

    1. Confront him
    2. Confront her
    3. Get more evidence to confront him.

    I'm not a person for snooping, but you can pull up text history from your provider.

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  • like others said, get some paper evidence to prove adultery and take him to the cleaners! cheating bastard!!

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  • Doesn't look good! Stay quiet and gather as much evidence as you can and pull his text record. Also check his bank account for any suspucious transactions. Good luck!

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  • As soon as you mention it to him, all the texts and her number may disappear so stay silent for a while to find out what's really going on.

    I'm married 22 years and do find it very strange :o( Sorry!

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  • Don't say anything to him and continue to check his phone... You may find out more before you make a big deal of nothing or you may have a case to confront about.

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  • thats weird because he never told you, its like hes hiding something

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  • Oooooooooooh.

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  • It's shady

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  • put a stop to it before it gets too far. but the fact that the guy has even thought of cheating is not a good sign. confront him, get your stories straight, then decide whether you can still trust him or not.

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    • Just because he's messaging someone he used to work with that happens to be female doesnt mean hes thought about cheating. What if the person was a male? Would u think the same thing? No. U are just thinking like that because its a woman. It could just be that he was really close to her at work. You cant always think negative unless you have proof of him doing something wrong.

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  • were you checking his phone?

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  • U need to keep better tabs of ur man

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