Is it normal for a man to make love to a woman only for her pleasure?

I make love to my woman even if I do not really enjoy it just to pleasure her. Is it normal? Sorry for the mistypings the iPhone bugs are Biting today.

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Based on 301 votes (240 yes)
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  • disthing

    I wouldn't have sex with a woman if I wasn't in the mood. Actually, in all likelihood I COULDN'T have sex with a woman if I wasn't in the mood. My penis would refuse even if I reluctantly accepted the challenge.

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  • blueyes-texas

    Story of my life... My girlfriend is a clinically diagnosed nymphomaniac with add.. I don't have sex, sex has me.. If that makes any sense to you

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  • ccjigsaw

    I think that's nice and all, but I don't recommend doing it. My boyfriend tried that and I say HELL NO. He should be enjoying it to. If your not in the mood, wait until you are ot maybe foreplay a little. Up to you though, if this what you like. I do think it's sweet

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  • mk99

    If you don't keep her happy, someone will.

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  • Sweetz

    Its just not the same if you're not in the mood when she is. Thats what makes a girl wild...knowing he wants her soo bad too.

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  • SoccerStud88

    women are horny bitches that's what i say

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  • mark777

    Dude, you will do her a greater service by pleasuring her only when you really want her.

    and that probably isn't very often if you are having sex out of a sense of obligation all the time and dissipating your lust (and hers).

    stop doing that and wait until your apetite is truly wetted. then enjoy her body like a hungry man would a roast dinner. that's what really satisfies a woman. And will satisfy you aswell.

    being diddled by mr limpy is not that enjoyable for most women even if they are too polite to tell you.

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  • ariannel

    I think that's sweet but never tell her that. She might take it personally. I'm also curious how that works exactly.... You must be into it enough in order to pleasure her properly.....

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  • I would just love to see what the comments would be if it was a female that does this to her man. I would just love to see it. How the man would be seen as the bad guy.

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    • Jukebox13

      Hahaha! True :)

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  • bookmaniac

    ook, any dude can get off - alone, with a chick, with a dude...but the guy who can get a girl off - that guy has something special. I LOVE getting' a girl off. It's such an f'n turn on. You should ALWAYS make her happy first. She'll be into you anytime you are into her - probably for the rest of your life.

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  • I'm sure she appreciates it.

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  • chatter289

    awww... you are so nice... wish my bf would have the same thoughts as you -.-. but im the same as you, i make love to my bf sometimes without wanting it because i want to please him... but him.. well.. yeah

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  • mustbegallons

    People mistakenly use the term "in the mood" to say that both partners in sex must be 100% satisfied. I receive great pleasure in kissing, devoting time to her breasts, her legs, and that magic spot on her torso where her legs are close together, otherwise called a 'pussy,' among other terms. Very few things can't take a back seat in favor of an hour or so of lovemaking, regardless of how horny I may or may not be.

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  • Dozis

    Yeah,my name is gump. Forrest gump. Duh!

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  • Darkoil

    I'm the same, having sex with me has to be the best experience she is ever going to have

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  • Aurora93

    Awwwwwwwwwwww. You're lovely (:

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  • Dozis

    I have to disagree. I am the best sex she ever got and she is not ashamed of saying it. Isn't it even hotter if she is just trapped under you? Completely and absolutely relaxed just enjoying the ride? Wild? I know she wants it, she said it,there isn't any need for further confirmations. What is she supposed to do? Act all nasty and stuff to make it look like she wants it so bad even known it is not like that and all of that crap? I already know she wants it. She said it.So what would be the point in that? She says:let's do it. Lays on the bed spread her legs I place myself Between them, wiggle my penis around for a few seconds till it gets hard then i mount her for 45 to 90 minutes straight without changing position or slowing down till she just can't take it anymore and begs me to flood her. So what? I could keep going but I do not only because she tells me she had enough. Damn i even have to pull her and hold her firmly because she tries slipping out of my grip. Then when i am done i just drop dead on her trapped in a corner of the bed completely satisfied and barely able to move or speak. As she says:Wow.

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    • bookmaniac

      HAH! bullshit. If you can actually go 45 to 90 without blown' your load, you have erectile issues, bro. We aren't made for that kind of stamina. I'm a physiologist...I study this shit for a living. You're watchin' too much porn. Plus...no woman wants you to pound her in the same position that long. Of course, if you have a little dick, maybe it takes you that long to get enough friction to get you to climax. In which case, it might be that it takes her that long too.

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  • randypete

    i love a fuck buddy

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  • BW1733

    yes , it is normal , i did it several times with my female teacher , and i got A

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  • openbottom58

    There's nothing wrong with that at all. Women do it all the time to us men. I have taken care of and satified my wife more than one time when I really wasn't in the mood for sex. She has never said anything but I'm sure she has appreciated it. And, I have always tried to help her have many good cums in the process. We use many toys and stuff so sometimes even when I'm in the mood I don't stick my cock in her and afterward all the sex is over she always sleeps real good and I know why!

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  • Dozis

    well thanks for your advices you are always so kind.
    (not really)

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  • IvanaVucks

    There is nothing wrong with loving to please your woman. But statistics show that men who (moreso) obsessively like to please women tend to have intamicy issues. I'm not saying that you are one of those ppl. I'm just stating facts

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  • Wandyr

    Nothing wrong with pleasuring her even if you're not in the mood. I often feel like pleasuring my girlfriend even if I don't necessarily want to do it myself. It's kind of a power thing in that I was able to do that to/for her. And seriously, making love does not have to mean penetration in only one way....

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  • mcbeats

    Is this forrest?!?come on i know its you..dnt lie to me!

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  • Nomster!

    ^ I agree.

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  • LightningTechnician

    That's actually pretty normal.

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  • Dozis

    Go take another evening class you poor schmuck.
    and keep ejaculating prematurely.

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