It sounds like you two are kinda rushing things and that there are some personal issues that need to worked through.
He was seeking a hook-up after you two decided to be exclusive.
Are you newly engaged? I sense a pattern.
Well I've been married before and I refuse to be married to anyone who doesn't value the vows and commitment as I do.
But my concern and worst fear is he's not truly being honest with himself about his past life style and I personally find it difficult to believe that you can want one thing one day hen the very next day say you no longer think about it want it you claim it's nothing. And I argue that 3 and Hal years of beintg with me was more than experimenting. And he was the one to tell me but the last guy he was with they saw rah other off and on for 2 years and this guy at one point wanted to end it and my bf told him that he didn't want t to end because he had the same feelings as this guy. And the last time they were together was just two weeks before our first date and his claim is that for the first time my bf seemed different to him in the sense that he made contact in public For the first time and when they got back to his place didn't what to wait for he party supplies to arrive before being together and this was there first time sober for that me my h supposedly made plans with him for a future and the was to introduce him to his family and kids as not a friend but his bf but once my bf left after a 5 day visit he didn't hear from him again till he called wanting sex which was the day we decided to be exclusive.
I believe there's more there than what he says. Because what ever his wants and desire was and there was something he likes about it cause other wise why would he have carried one for so long and it can't be the excuse of drugs because some he used with and some he didn't .
Is it normal for a man to have "down low"lifestyle then not want it
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It sounds like you two are kinda rushing things and that there are some personal issues that need to worked through.
He was seeking a hook-up after you two decided to be exclusive.
Are you newly engaged? I sense a pattern.
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Well I've been married before and I refuse to be married to anyone who doesn't value the vows and commitment as I do.
But my concern and worst fear is he's not truly being honest with himself about his past life style and I personally find it difficult to believe that you can want one thing one day hen the very next day say you no longer think about it want it you claim it's nothing. And I argue that 3 and Hal years of beintg with me was more than experimenting. And he was the one to tell me but the last guy he was with they saw rah other off and on for 2 years and this guy at one point wanted to end it and my bf told him that he didn't want t to end because he had the same feelings as this guy. And the last time they were together was just two weeks before our first date and his claim is that for the first time my bf seemed different to him in the sense that he made contact in public For the first time and when they got back to his place didn't what to wait for he party supplies to arrive before being together and this was there first time sober for that me my h supposedly made plans with him for a future and the was to introduce him to his family and kids as not a friend but his bf but once my bf left after a 5 day visit he didn't hear from him again till he called wanting sex which was the day we decided to be exclusive.
I believe there's more there than what he says. Because what ever his wants and desire was and there was something he likes about it cause other wise why would he have carried one for so long and it can't be the excuse of drugs because some he used with and some he didn't .