Is it normal for a man not to want to have sex ?

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So I've recently been dating this attractive guy. He's amazing treats me better than any guy i have ever been with. The only problem is he doesn't like to have sex a lot. I'm always having to basically beg him. I know he's not seeing anyone else because i'm with him everyday and i did snoop and go through his phone (bad i know). He says he's just not a horny person. We only have sex like once a week. Hes in his 20's. Is this normal?

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    You have different sex drives. Gender doesn't come into it. If it's really an issue and you can't adjust to the lower frequency of getting laid, then you may have to part ways.

    And yeah, it is bad to look through someone's phone to check if they're seeing someone else - what the fuck? Sounds like you haven't been together that long, yet you're already spying on him? You should be ashamed.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago

    Different people have different sex drives. Everyone's not all the same.

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      I can always depend on at least one user to give inane advice on the same level as after-school PSAs.

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      • VirgilManly
        9 years ago

        There are actually people who need to be reminded. They also need the printed instructions on shampoo bottles and tubes of toothpaste.

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        • EccentricWeird
          9 years ago

          Like when I buy toothpaste it says "contents are extremely hot" well no shit there amirite?

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  • TwoThumbs
    9 years ago

    Honestly...it feels really shitty to be in a relationship with someone who has no sex drive while you do. I don't just those that don't have a sex drive...but I can't imagine a relationship working having opposite sex drives.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I'm somewhat the same and I've known some guys like that, too.

    Not everyone wants to fuck at every minute. Lol.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You will need a good collection of vibrators and dildos if you plan to stay with this guy. Check out adameve.com Perhaps he would agree to stimulate you with your toys.

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  • fullhouse
    9 years ago

    Talk to him. Ask what is his wildest fantasy, n work through it. If he dosent have one then may be he's asexual. In dat case I feel sorry for u. May b if he's not interested in sex then have an open relationship just for sex?

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  • norm-a-nah
    9 years ago

    He maybe wants to be tempted/eased into it for example lingerie,candles,massages the romantic things and doesn't really know it...if hes still " not in the mood its maybe an excuse..because in the conversation stage you should have been aware of all that.

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  • polopo
    9 years ago

    I dont think it is bad , Im like him, I dont like sex, My girlfriend begs me for it, and we just do it like 1 time a month. Both of us are 21

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  • TrustMeImLying
    9 years ago

    I feel in our current generation, this phenomenon's increasingly common

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