Is it normal for a man not to tell u he loves u after year and a half

I had an affair he tells me he wants to go all the way but can't tell me he loves me until it feels natural and I am divorced.

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29% Normal
Based on 56 votes (16 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Maybe because u r havin an affair he feels he can't trust u by tellin u something so meaningful because u obviously don't care cuz ur cheating on the man ur supposed to love

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  • wuddeva

    I wonder if most women make me lose faith in humanity or if it is just women that I hear about... Anyway, shove it up your ass, cheater. And yes. Tell your husband.

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  • psychobabble

    You had an affair??? No wonder he doesn't tell you he loves you!! He probably has no respect for you! I wouldn't be surprised if he thinks you would end up doing the same thing to him one day!

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  • alwynn

    So you think he feels I may cheat on him. I see that but in this case I don't think that's the problem. See I know what I did was wrong and believe me nobody could make me feel worse than I already do I have punished myself emotionally beyond belief. I hate myself. However he chose to sleep with another mans wife doesn't make him innocent either.

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  • Honestly i believe he has the right not to say It because he's probably scared to love you because of your affair Telling someone you love them and trusting them will all of your heart then having them shit all over you by cheating is very tragic it's going to take time.

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  • alwynn

    I did tell him but he says the affair caused much guilt. He says he needs space between me asking him and him telling me so it feels normal

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  • fancyj

    That's a long time not to say I love you. Maybe he's been hurt in the past and is scared. If you love him, tell him and see what happens.

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  • alwynn

    I'm not having an affair anymore. I do understand ur comment.

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  • Meli

    Well put apm

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