Yes, I have tried talking to him about & no he can never not defensive or heated about it, he instantly goes 2 red. WHen he was married b4 his x wife bitched about it ALL the time so I make sure I never do b"c I don't want 2 b a reminder of her but now I am paying 4 it. I have always been very independent, had to be when my x & I got divorece & we have 5 kids, so I had to b independent but he says thats my worst feature & maybe the constant softball is my punishment for it, I don't know.
Is it normal for a husband to be so selfish
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Yes, I have tried talking to him about & no he can never not defensive or heated about it, he instantly goes 2 red. WHen he was married b4 his x wife bitched about it ALL the time so I make sure I never do b"c I don't want 2 b a reminder of her but now I am paying 4 it. I have always been very independent, had to be when my x & I got divorece & we have 5 kids, so I had to b independent but he says thats my worst feature & maybe the constant softball is my punishment for it, I don't know.